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To all the guys on Valentines! Your not alone.

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Busybee1 Member

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Maybe we can divert our sorrow by seeing alot of us here are also in pain and can share our thoughts.

 

4 Months for me. Keep relapsing. Feeling hollow and sick as a dog. Today in particular i'm feeling ultra low.

 

Going to gym tonight to shift some iron. Then cook myself a protein rich supper!

 

Hang in there chaps.

 

I feel your pain.

 

A year from now we will be happy :)

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allcriedout1 Member

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He broke up with me 4 months ago but we had contact in Dec and Jan and he gave me mixed signals. Now I am at day 17 of NC. Its hard. Fridays were always are nights to hang out together and now this Friday is Valentines Day. Ugh.

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Busybee1 Member

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Maybe I should have added gals to title. Sorry.

 

Hang in there allcriedout1 :) We are all feeling it tonight.

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oh I didnt even realize you wrote guys...haha... no worries but yeah... after having my valentine for 8 years this is crap. I know its just a Hallmark holiday and we never really made a huge deal of it but it still bothers me.

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Busybee1 Member

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oh I didnt even realize you wrote guys...haha... no worries but yeah... after having my valentine for 8 years this is crap. I know its just a Hallmark holiday and we never really made a huge deal of it but it still bothers me.

 

Same here. Last year was memorable for me. But im torturing myself thinking my ex is looking lovingly into someones eyes handing her roses and chocolates, when in reality she may well be doing nothing. At this stage, our minds seem to try and push up the worst possible scenarios. Next year it will be us lot having a great evening with someone much better!

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oh I didnt even realize you wrote guys...haha... no worries but yeah... after having my valentine for 8 years this is crap. I know its just a Hallmark holiday and we never really made a huge deal of it but it still bothers me.

 

This is my first year of being single on valentines in 9 years (split between 3 LTRs). It's quite different as I'm always trying to make someone else happy and go all out on this particular day but its just me today. Kinda sad, kinda not.

 

I hope everyone is holding up well...If you do think of your exes or any past relationships...just remember the good times and hope that love find you again one day. That's what I tell myself anyways ;).

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More than 3yrs now since i stopped dating, i thought i was over it, i thought i was immune to it ... but today i saw a girl that is exactly my type [i'm a very particular guy], and after getting bombarded with v-day messages i'm finally miserable.

Did not happen the yrs before, i stayed inside ... should have done the same today.

 

Thanks for posting guys [and gals], it's nice to see that there are others who as miserable [or much more] than i am.

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I was 5 days NC. Broke NC. Now I'm on day 2 of NC and trying to stick with it. I realize it will only benefit me by cutting off all ties, however, I'm having a really tiough time today on V-Day knowing she is spending it with her new boyfriend. Painful! I don't want to feel jealous/angry/sad anymore. Ready to fast-forward a couple months.

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I'm having a really tiough time today on V-Day knowing she is spending it with her new boyfriend. Painful! I don't want to feel jealous/angry/sad anymore. Ready to fast-forward a couple months.

 

Just think, maybe that poor chap might be in the very same situation you are feeling now, next V-day. And you will have moved on :)

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Lifegoezon Established Member

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Yep. Feeling it today. Half expected a breadcrumb but nope. Zilch. Nada. One more milestone behind us on the road to recovery. Might be opening that red wine earlier than planned.

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30 odd days for me. She's out on a date tonight it's depressing. Planning on gym first thing to vent.... Tempted to drink tonight. Red wine I think

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I'm always alone on this fu*king piece of sh*t holiday.

 

Up until two months ago, I really thought this would be the first V-day that I would spend with a girl.

 

I hate my fu*king ex!

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I'm always alone on this fu*king piece of sh*t holiday.

 

Up until two months ago, I really thought this would be the first V-day that I would spend with a girl.

 

I hate my fu*king ex!

 

Same.. i've never spent valentines with anyone before.. and this time around I thought i would but nope.. broke up with ab a month prior.. sighh are we cursed or something?

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red wine for me also tonight :love:

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Yep. Feeling it today. Half expected a breadcrumb but nope. Zilch. Nada. One more milestone behind us on the road to recovery. Might be opening that red wine earlier than planned.

 

I was hoping for the same thing...but it was just wishful thinking. I also had the same thought as you..one more milestone to get past. I guess that's good. Hang in there.

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I was going to drink red wine but found a bottle of bacardi rum. So 30 NC she's already moved on (was seeing him 2 months before she told me) and on a romantic date tonight ...... Wow 8 years means nothing theses days.

 

Well my friend bacardi, let's have a nice time, get me drunk and take me to bed mate!

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F**k valentines day, it's just another f**king day. It only gives you sorrow if you allow it to. All these couples are just going to buy each other chocolates and go out to dinner or some s***, who cares? It's friday y'all, let's go get drunk!!

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Been NC for over 3 months BU around September. I've been pretty optimistic uuh ntill the last 2 weeks, I started feeling lonely and last week a got a random missed call from her at 6:30am but I just tell myself it was an accident or else she would've called back, and now im even more mad at myself because I shouldnt care lol and on top of that me and my friends decided to be valentines since we were both single and now I think she is dodging my calls to make plans with a guy she likes ugh fml. At least im not going to waste money today that's a plus side lol hang in there everyone

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I am celebrating this special day with an excellent Italian red wine that he left here some time ago.He also sent me some crumbs tonight, truth is that he left the moment I was fired, and he also left me all the bills to pay..cheers

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