Author HeartBorken Posted February 18, 2014 Author Posted February 18, 2014 I agree, be he obviously doesn't understand this, he's sick/afflicted. And she's terminally ill. This is why I say hear her out, keep her at bay, let her pace outside the castle walls for a few months (like a leper), keep living your life, keep improving, she'll either get bored and die off, or heal up and understand the gravity of the crime she's committed. People **** up, either because of immaturity, stupidity, bad decisions, etc. etc. Nothing is story book, especially maters of the heart. It's like playing chess with emotions.. there is plenty to be learned from 'observing' the 'terminally ill.' As long as he drives the conversations/exchanges and is pragmatic of what is said and done, he will not be stroking her ego. She'll understand that the castle walls are way up high. Make her earn it and teach her a lesson for her life. You have control now, be a man and direct the path forward. You to give great advice that makes a lot of sense. but you know thanks for writing off as being Sick/Afflicted.
WantanS4 Posted February 18, 2014 Posted February 18, 2014 You to give great advice that makes a lot of sense. but you know thanks for writing off as being Sick/Afflicted. No, not a write off. Having a broken heart is like being sick with a cold And what heals all colds?? Time. Time to heal. It's an affliction and it's temporary. To answer your question, how do you build trust? Well, like any other relationship (non sexual/or rather in the conventional use of the word), with time, honesty, consistency and temperance. There is no 'do this and you're done'; you have to feel it out. This is why its better to take your time with it. As Winterblue points out, ultimately, you'll find, with time, that this is truly a 'new' relationship. One that, you may find with time, you want nothing to do with.
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