libertyme Posted February 14, 2014 Posted February 14, 2014 Today is Valentine's Day. Dumped 6 months ago, it was definitely hard not to think of him today. Yup, i'm still an idiot! I must have been crazy to still have thought about him today. So here I come to yelp and wallow so that i don't do things i'll definitely regret later on. I revisited the old threads that I wrote about him months ago. Wow, it was so crazy! I nearly sent the please comeback letter to him. GOSH!!! Then when he sent me a new year greeting text i thought maybe he wanted me back??? Boy, was I wrong. I replied cheerfully and he never contacted me back! Second blow!!! Still after all these I would still want him back. Sometimes I just cannot understand myself. Maybe what's left are just obsessions and the fact that he beat me to breaking up with me and that makes me think of him. If you know what I mean... Still, i know this is stupid but secretly, i told myself if he comes back in these 3 months (Jan - March) I would consider taking him back. If not, by the end of March, I would cry my heart out again one last time and really moved on! That was the little promise i made to myself. I know, Stupid me! You can laugh all you want at me!
Discover Posted February 14, 2014 Posted February 14, 2014 No one will laugh at you, c'mon what is that attitude? This is not an aggressive community!! It is your personal choice,Just a friendly advice..don't lean on the thought that he is coming back! It will help you if it doesn't go as you want the next month! Relax..you are not stupid.you were/are just blindly in love! P.S Don't contact him any more and just wait..the answer will come on its own!
mammasita Posted February 14, 2014 Posted February 14, 2014 Its not stupid. We all go through it. The one thing I recommend you working on though is considering taking him back. Ask yourself WHY? Focus on yourself and forget about him and trying to make things work. Hang in there! 1
Philosoraptor Posted February 14, 2014 Posted February 14, 2014 So what are you doing to take care of yourself? Are you filling all your time with happy things and making best use of the little time we have in this life? No need to wait until March? What's the point? Start moving on today. Let life work itself out, but put yourself in the best position to be happy no matter what happens. 1
Author libertyme Posted February 14, 2014 Author Posted February 14, 2014 This is so hard. I'm crying heaps as I write this. I know deep down this is the right thing to do. I HATE HIM! and yet I really like him! I hate him for taking the easy way out and I hate myself for liking a coward like him. What's good for liking a guy who will take flight and not fight for you. I'll do it for myself and stick to it.
Raena Posted February 14, 2014 Posted February 14, 2014 This is so hard. I'm crying heaps as I write this. I know deep down this is the right thing to do. I HATE HIM! and yet I really like him! I hate him for taking the easy way out and I hate myself for liking a coward like him. What's good for liking a guy who will take flight and not fight for you. I'll do it for myself and stick to it. That's the right attitude! I know it hurts, but let it all out. Cry your eyes out until you just can't cry anymore... and then let it go and move on! You can do it! You deserve better!
yorkie Posted February 14, 2014 Posted February 14, 2014 libertyme i know how you are feeling same boat really exactly how you feel. but you need to move on hun, i am seeing someone else who i love to bits to but still regret things how she left me! my current gf is away on holiday and i feel lost without her and it made me think of my ex alot on how she will be getting wined and dined and bigger flowers etc but you know what! they left us i am moving on and this is just a knock back! its a true saying what doesnt kills you makes you stronger. you are not pathetic at all you keep your bloody chin up girl! im crying to! its because of valentines day and its about love etc and the ones we loved! come int our mines you are doin really well you might not feel it at the moment but you are! well done and let them tears flow by god i am! i felt emotional all day! after you have had your cry look yourself in the mirro and say whats done is done! you cant change the past but you can your future! your strong! do you know why! cos you came on here and let it out! well done and chin up! xxxx
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