lulu1 Posted January 18, 2005 Posted January 18, 2005 me and my ex are dating. He really wants to give it a shot. So we have been out a couple of times and it went very well. He said we need to build a strong fondation or it wont last. last weekedn we went out and had a great time together, we did not sleep with each other although it was hard not to. we both wanted it, but we stoped it. I decided we need a vaation. we have not had one togher just by are self in over 3 yrs. So i booked us a flight and hotel to vegas and i called him up and told him. He was so happy, he said i cant belive you did that. Wow. Then he informed me that is uncle was comming up from Brazil in Feb and was going to take him to Vegas. SO i canclled the trip. He said that was such a suprise i want to go on a trip with you, so i told him i was thinking about chicago. He loved the idea, he said lets go there. I told him before i thought of vegas chicago was first, i said i was calling to see how much it would be to take a train there and he about died. He got so exited, he's like i have never been on a train before. So we are going to go to Chicago in the middle of February. I told him that i want and try to reconect with him and i want him to reconet with me. He agreed. He said it takes time, but i do know that he really cares and loves me. He has sent me emails in the last couple of weeks telling me he wants to date. He wants to see what will happen with us. He said i want to enjoy you and no one eles,.this trip is just for us. i really hope it works out. ANy advise to make it more memrable?? make him really, really want me?
blind_otter Posted January 18, 2005 Posted January 18, 2005 Great. Stop trying to buy his love. I used to do this. I even took my exhusband to Jamaica for a week and spent thousands of dollars. It doesn't work, and makes you look desperate. This is something you do when you've been involved for a long time. Don't spend money on men unless they prove to you that they are worthy in some way. Not after a few passionate dates.
Author lulu1 Posted January 18, 2005 Author Posted January 18, 2005 we were together for over 3 yrs. We have been talking and emailing a lot in the last 3 or 4 wks. He tells me he loves me and wants to work on it. he said sometimes you have to take a step back to go foward
Spider-Man Posted January 18, 2005 Posted January 18, 2005 I would have to say I agree with blind_otter, and not just cuz shes gorgeous
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