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Was he interested or just using me?


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So i met this very very popular guy in one of my classes at my college. He is a star football player basically. He added me on facebook a couple weeks ago and i messaged him asking him something about our class. We kept messaging each other on and off for about a week, but he would take a while to reply to me. We didn't sit next to each other in class more than once either.

 

All of a sudden, i asked him something about his major and he takes all day to reply, and i figured its maybe because people dont just hang around on facebook all day. But when he does, he simply sends me his phone number. Doesn't answer my question or have any explanation, just sends me the number. So i text him and said hey:) and as we text for a week or so he literally takes hours to reply, but when he does he replies with paragraphs, as in not just one word answers or anything. And when we texted, has asked me more than once how far away i live from campus and stuff, like he really wants to know where i'm at maybe..? Then it starts to take him days to reply to me and now it's been 2 weeks since he's replied to a text i sent him. The last thing i said was more of just a statement but i feel like if he was really interested in me he would have asked me something next instead of just not replying...? I don't really see him in class because the hall is so big and i sit in the front so i can pay attention.

 

I'm just curious, guys? Was he interested in me just for sex or is he maybe just an A hole who thinks he can get away with whatever he wants...including just leaving girls hanging like that? Lol, insight from guys and girls would be appreciated.

 

I'm just confused because he seemed really interested at first when he just threw his number at me, but he hasn't taken any action in trying to hook up with me if that's what he wants

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He lost interest in you if he have it at all. Send him another text to see how long it takes him to respond. Find another cute boy I'm sure he isn't the only one.

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Used you for what? He hasn't asked you out? You havent slept with him? Im confused

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