LiveLoveLaugh Posted January 18, 2005 Posted January 18, 2005 OK, so I have started dating and it is alot of fun, but I'm turning into the bumper sticker "so many men, so little time!" I am meeting so many men it is crazy! Nice men, with great jobs and lots of fun, and I like a couple of them alot, but I don't know if I can figure out how to juggle, so to speak! In the past I was always like "oh I like him, I don't want to mess it up" but, it is different now. I just want to have fun. All my friends say they were like me, one at a time until it fizzles, then move on. I want to learn how to juggle my men. I know guys do it all the time with women, whats the secret to keeping them interested when you can't see them for weeks at a time? And, what if I really like one, and want to have sex? Then if I date another does this make me bad?
savethedrama4allama Posted January 18, 2005 Posted January 18, 2005 Uhhh I dunno. Never had this problem.
Naive Posted January 18, 2005 Posted January 18, 2005 I've never been in this situation either, but I think that as long as you keep dating you will become a pro!!! Remember practice makes perfect
alphamale Posted January 18, 2005 Posted January 18, 2005 Originally posted by LiveLoveLaugh And, what if I really like one, and want to have sex? Then if I date another does this make me bad? As long as you are just banging one at a time you are oK
SilentPrayer Posted January 18, 2005 Posted January 18, 2005 WOMENS INTUITION WILL HELP YOU! Just dont start acting like a guy would. Thinking like a man, will get you caught like a man. We all know men get caught. Mother nature gave you "Womens Intuition" use it to your ability. I can't say much but I can say this. Play them like ping pong. Never give up, never slow down. Dont take it too easy on the BALL. If its breaks there is always another one. Its only a game, you can choose to end it when YOU want to. Its not all about winning. Sometimes its better to lose so you can learn from your mistakes. Shake the hand of the winner cause no one likes a soar loser. If you lose bow out gracefully, keep your dignity in tact. If you win make sure you applaud the loser, after all they competed against you "the winner". Most of all listen to whats inside you. Dont ever believe someone mean words. Never believe all the nice ones. Dont walk the earth being paranoid. Then again, always keep a look around you. What im trying to say in all this MUMBO of mixed messages. If you want someone to be true to you; you need to be true to them. Just cause a man plays the field and breaks hearts. Doesnt mean you have to as well. Which side of evolution are you from? WOMEN's side, act like one..use the brain GOD gave ya. The best thing you can do to someone who hurt you; is to fallow your owne path in the opposite direction. (DO YOU remember how it felt to find out a guy was playing you? Dont let aggresion and grudges ruin what could possibly be a totally un-tainted relationship. TREATING everyguy like they were the ONE who broke you heart will only keep opening the scar. MOST MOST OF ALL....if YOU decide to play the game.."PLAY IT HARD" con~
Spider-Man Posted January 18, 2005 Posted January 18, 2005 I think Spider-Man has just fallen in love with savethedramaforyrmama
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