vanellope Posted February 14, 2014 Posted February 14, 2014 Hi all, I met a guy in online dating website last month, he is from US, so we are long distance. these days we only messages and talk on phone and exchange photos. and last weekend he told me he want we do video chat, so he called me. 2 days we had really good conversation via video chat, we talk long time and is really good feelings, talking about feelings, openion and funny things, and share some secrets. I thought everything went well but since this Tuesday he start seems not so interesting to talk with me. I see he online and always me start chat with him first, and the chat become short. should I ask he directly why he become ignore me like this or things is very obvious that he is not interesting in me. I just don't understand or this is very normal? He did tell me he dates 3 girls at the same time, so it's mean he choose other? We did plan to have a trip together next Month, so should I ask him about the trip or I just fade by myself. When I think about the conversation we share last weekend, I really hard to believe he become like this now.
HappyLove Posted February 14, 2014 Posted February 14, 2014 He's seeing someone else. He even TOLD YOU he's seeing other women. And NEVER EVER go away on a trip with a perfect stranger you met on the internet! 1
Gaeta Posted February 14, 2014 Posted February 14, 2014 Ouch ! Not much experience with dating eh? 1. The man told you he is dating 3 other women, you are the 4th on the list. He is treating you like a man dating 4 women at the same time. 2. You do not know him, you only communicated online with him, this is a total stranger. 3. You do not have trips, especially not in a foreign country, to meet a man that you've only communicated with for ONE MONTH, a man that says he's dating 3 other women!! Why would you spend ANY MONEY to meet this joker? 4. He lost interest because he didn't see what he wanted in the skype convo. Maybe he thought you did not look like your pictures, maybe he found you less attractive, maybe he did not get the actions he was expecting, who knows. 5. If you're in the business of finding yourself a man for a relationship, dump and move to next.
MidwestUSA Posted February 14, 2014 Posted February 14, 2014 You are lucky to have recognized his 'change of mind'. You are very vulnerable right now, having come out of a painful relationship. I know it's tempting to jump at the first guy who tells you you're cute, but he's been honest - he dates around. Do NOT take a trip with him, do NOT come to the states to see him! Focus on meeting people in real life, so that you can carefully observe actions versus words. 1
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