Pickled?

[SodaStrean]

So me and this girl had a great relationship, but due to us both having to follow our dreams we were almost forced to break up.

This was six months ago and we recently began talking again via facebook, talking about the old days, flirting, winding eachother up, so she's poking around me and girls since we broke up while talking so i just came straight out with it and said i'd been with two and asked what else did she expect me to do.

 

So she kinda got the huff about it and hasn't really spoke to me for a day or two, what does that mean? no offense but women are complicated creatures haha

[TheyCallMeOx]

It got confusing ever since you both "forced" a breakup. Breakups aren't supposed to be forced -- breakups are supposed to occur because of actual substance. Breakups are supposed to happen because a relationship deteriorates and someone feels that they'd rather break it off than to continue. You can follow your dreams, but that doesn't mean you have to give up on the people you love. Of course there's still going to be feelings because when you both love each other and breakup because of something can most likely be dealt with. In her mind, she was still in love with you and maybe felt that you were still devoted to her. When she found out that you were doing things with other women, she might be thinking to herself "dang...I waited all this time for nothing." Of course, I can't speak for her as I don't know her and I'm not a woman, but that's just an educated guess. It probably upset her that you did things with other women because, deep down, she never stopped loving you.

 

With that being said, I don't want to give you any false hope. There's really no telling what she's thinking at the moment and it's best to just let her do her thing. Don't get too caught up in "catching up" because you want to make sure that if things go great, you are less likely to breakup. I really don't think you wanna go through two breakups again. That's just me, though.