pioneer Posted January 18, 2005 Posted January 18, 2005 Iv been split up with my ex for about 3 and a half months, we had been together nearly 6 years, she ended. I did try and get back with her for weeks on end, but was getting nowhere, so i decided to try the no contact thing. I didn't ring her for a few weeks, then one night, when i was chatting on MSN a box came up and it was her trying to talk to me. This went on for about 2 weeks and i kept ignoring her. Then the other night, i decided to speak to her on it, seen as i do still love her and i would do almost anything to get back with her. She started off saying hi, then asking what id been up 2. I answered mainly one word answers. She told me her friends had seen me out clubbing and things like that, then she suddenly said, "im glad your happy, bye" but she didn't go, we chatted for a little longer about a few old times. I asked her if she was happy and she said sometimes she is and others she isn't. This played on my mind all the next day, so i sent her a text message saying that i really miss her. She sent me one back saying that she misses me and its a shame how things have turned out. I sent one back saying they've only turned out like this because this is what you wanted, and she never replied. I really hate the girls she is hanging around with now too. The problem is, iv started dating someone new, and now iv had this contact with the ex, i haven't been able to see this new girl, because i keep wondering what if i get with her and my ex wants me back. Also, my ex has a lot more going for her than the new girl im dating and this plays on my mind too. What do i do?
tattoomytoe Posted January 18, 2005 Posted January 18, 2005 ggooood -lawd! why do guys always think just cause a girl (ex) says hi...it means she wants you? not to say she does not, but maybe she just wanted to be nice.
jcweik Posted January 20, 2005 Posted January 20, 2005 ^She just wanted to be nice multi times? Even after he didn't answer for a few weeks?
theone44 Posted January 20, 2005 Posted January 20, 2005 Originally posted by pioneer Iv been split up with my ex for about 3 and a half months, we had been together nearly 6 years, she ended. I did try and get back with her for weeks on end, but was getting nowhere, so i decided to try the no contact thing. I didn't ring her for a few weeks, then one night, when i was chatting on MSN a box came up and it was her trying to talk to me. This went on for about 2 weeks and i kept ignoring her. Then the other night, i decided to speak to her on it, seen as i do still love her and i would do almost anything to get back with her. She started off saying hi, then asking what id been up 2. I answered mainly one word answers. She told me her friends had seen me out clubbing and things like that, then she suddenly said, "im glad your happy, bye" but she didn't go, we chatted for a little longer about a few old times. I asked her if she was happy and she said sometimes she is and others she isn't. This played on my mind all the next day, so i sent her a text message saying that i really miss her. She sent me one back saying that she misses me and its a shame how things have turned out. I sent one back saying they've only turned out like this because this is what you wanted, and she never replied. I really hate the girls she is hanging around with now too. The problem is, iv started dating someone new, and now iv had this contact with the ex, i haven't been able to see this new girl, because i keep wondering what if i get with her and my ex wants me back. Also, my ex has a lot more going for her than the new girl im dating and this plays on my mind too. What do i do? an ex is an ex... the past is the past ....yesterday is yesterday. What more must i say?
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