Redhawkk Posted February 13, 2014 Posted February 13, 2014 So I've been broken up and NC for a little more than a week and a half now. I'm generally having good days but the last two, I have been having thoughts about her. Just missing her voice and face, that's all. A week and a half ago, I asked her to pack my things but I know my Ex pretty well, and she's...well...absent-minded. I'm sure she's forgotten to do so and I do have things there I wish to reclaim. How can I go about doing this?...either way, I realize I'll be back to Day 1. That's probably why I've been thinking about her, cause I know I have to get my stuff back from her. I just need some help on how I can ask without sounding rude or mean. We broke up mutually(we both agreed it was for the best, even though she's the one who went astray). I don't resent her or anything so I don't want to be mean, I have no reason too be
ithappenedagain Posted February 14, 2014 Posted February 14, 2014 Since your break was mutal, I dont see any problem with you reaching out to her with a simple message asking her when a good time would be to arrange you to pick up your belongings.. My situation was a little different. She broke up with me, out of the blue. So after about 10 days, I had my friend text her to setup a time for him to pick up my stuff. There was no way I wanted to see her. So basically you have 2 options. If you have the courage to see her face to face, go for it. Or you could arrange to have a friend pick up your stuff? This can all be done drama free. Don't worry about that.
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