brokenheart94 Posted February 23, 2014 Posted February 23, 2014 Hey we r all here for you! And u shud cry n let everything out its the only way to relieve the emotions built up inside
brokenheart94 Posted February 23, 2014 Posted February 23, 2014 I just read your posts and i realise im pretty much going through the same thing!!! I have this anxiety that if i dont talk to her she will get out of my life n i cant do anythin cuz i want her in my life so much. She keeps tellin me to move on and she also broke up with me by text and i want her to realiss that shes making a mistake n comes back. What im sayin is dont feel as though ure goin thru this alone just stay strong and keep your head up.
Author crackerjax9 Posted February 24, 2014 Author Posted February 24, 2014 My boyfriend of 18 months broke up with me a week before valentines day through a text message. I talked to him in person Friday and he said he isn't happy, thinks we can find more compatible partners and wants me to move on. I've been an emotional wreck and am so heartbroken. I can't stop thinking about him and miss him so much. 2 days NC. I was just in the shower and decided when I was done I would make a negative positive list to look at whenever I feel down. The negatives I wrote down are at least 5x more than the positives, such things like he's not that funny when were only only in public, he's impatient, not a lot of spark, sex is predictable , and he's immature.So now I'm thinking maybe he is right. Maybe I can find someone who is more compatabile with me. But why am I feeling so depressed, anxious and heartbroken? If I know now that he's probably right shouldn't I feel nothing at all? Okay with it? I'm so confused I love him very much and don't know what to do anymore. Thoughts? I also suggest you all make a list yourselves.
Weallwalkthelongroad Posted February 24, 2014 Posted February 24, 2014 I did the same thing. Made me realize its for the best but it doesn't make it hurt any less for the time being.
Virgil876 Posted February 24, 2014 Posted February 24, 2014 Read through another thread and noticed the OP didn't listwn, this thread is pretty much the same... You have to understand there are wiser people here to give you good advice, so id you ask for it, act upon it for your own sanity.
generic person Posted February 24, 2014 Posted February 24, 2014 don't worry about it, my ex of four years broke up with me on several occasions through text, facebook, on christmas eve, the night before my birthday not once in person and moved out and left me with her best friend that we lived with. When my Nan passed away and i watched her last breaths and my misses went to her friends 21st instead of been with me by my side. for some reason I kept Fighting for her and getting back together. Moral of the story once you break up for the first time cut all ties because it will save you a lot of heartbreak in the future regardless of who is at fault. the relationship isn't working and you need to move on. Tough times in a relationship should bring you closer together not further apart.
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