truth_seeker Posted February 13, 2014 Posted February 13, 2014 Are older women better to date than younger women? OLDER: 35 and up YOUNGER: 20-35 I noticed older women get to the point. Hardly encounter games. "This is what I'm looking for, you in or are you out?" Younger women, it's chase, calling, texting. I can get a younger woman's number, she'll blow me off but if I hit her up 1-2 months later, I can possibly hook up with her. This just the way things are today or does it come down to each individual woman? Don't mean to generalize, just interested in some discussion.
soulstarter Posted February 13, 2014 Posted February 13, 2014 [Younger women, it's chase, calling, texting. I can get a younger woman's number, are you saying you call text and chase her or or you saying she does it to you?
Author truth_seeker Posted February 13, 2014 Author Posted February 13, 2014 One girl we exchanged numbers. I initiated texting and she called me. I asked her out and she said maybe and then disappeared on me. Two months later I was out and texted her. She told me to meet her, we hooked up. I've come across more younger women giving me their numbers, I call and I get blown off... but if I hang in there (send a text weeks later) I might get lucky one night.
HappyLove Posted February 13, 2014 Posted February 13, 2014 How old are you? Sounds like from your experience the young girls are flaky looking for fun. Older women have HOPEFULLY learned by the time they are 35 that this lifestyle leads to nothing so they get wiser, but not always the case. 1
pteromom Posted February 13, 2014 Posted February 13, 2014 Depends on how old you are and what you are looking for (LTR, FWB, ONS).
kart180 Posted February 13, 2014 Posted February 13, 2014 I would always like a younger women just due to if I have kids and she is more healthy. However as I get older, I would need to date women in my age range. I would like to a LDR or FWB but no women will want me.
Phoe Posted February 13, 2014 Posted February 13, 2014 There probably is a correlation in age, but there definitely are individual exceptions. I am 24, but have no patience for games. It's just the way my personality is, I need things to be straightforward and direct. On the other hand, I know women in their 40's who are flaky as can be. Drama. Games. So it can vary at times. 1
Gaeta Posted February 13, 2014 Posted February 13, 2014 I am 48 and get hit on plenty by men 33 to 43 because I am in your face with what I want with no detour. Younger usually men enjoy that no-non-sense attitude. I date younger men because I am tired of the games men my age play, and the younger men dating me are tired of the games and insecurities of women their age. It's usually a good deal. 1
HappyLove Posted February 13, 2014 Posted February 13, 2014 I would always like a younger women just due to if I have kids and she is more healthy. However as I get older, I would need to date women in my age range. I would like to a LDR or FWB but no women will want me. Young doesn't mean healthy! As a matter of fact the way these young girls run the streets and give it up you better get tested STAT!
Author truth_seeker Posted February 13, 2014 Author Posted February 13, 2014 I think it's a generational thing? Women who are late 30's, in their 40's, when they were in there 20's I don't think behaved the way 20 year old women behave now? Maybe they were better at being discreet because social media didn't exist? It didn't lead to more opportunities to flake, play guys?
gaius Posted February 13, 2014 Posted February 13, 2014 There are a lot of younger women who are really cute but 99/100 times when they start talking it kills it for me.
Phantom888 Posted February 13, 2014 Posted February 13, 2014 "Older" women are by far more sophisticated and sexier. I would not be attracted to women under 30. I am 39, and it's such a huge difference dating women in their 20s vs 30s. 1
Author truth_seeker Posted February 13, 2014 Author Posted February 13, 2014 There are a lot of younger women who are really cute but 99/100 times when they start talking it kills it for me. This happened to me not too long ago. Really pretty girl, got her number, acting like she was 12, it killed the attraction. 1
Grumpybutfun Posted February 13, 2014 Posted February 13, 2014 Both are lovely and have their strengths...very often the same strengths. When I was a young man I learned a lot from dating older ladies, and when I was a little bit older I loved that my wife who is younger could learn things from dating me. It all comes full circle really. G 1
Poppygoodwill Posted February 13, 2014 Posted February 13, 2014 I'm in the older category and I have found that the confidence that comes with experience means I go for what I want, i'm much less likely to be all boo-hoo broken up about a fling that went wrong because I have that confidence. I have dated many younger men because as someone said,they have less baggage and they're less intimidated by my confidence and straightforwardness than older men - to generalize.
kodakgirl Posted February 13, 2014 Posted February 13, 2014 There probably is a correlation in age, but there definitely are individual exceptions. Seconded! I am 26 and never had any interest in games, or dating around, or leading someone on, or any of that crap. I take my personal relationships and other peoples' emotions very seriously. And I'm definitely not the only woman I know who feels that way. I'm sure more young women are into that than older.... but not all!!! 1
Tayken Posted February 13, 2014 Posted February 13, 2014 There are a lot of younger women who are really cute but 99/100 times when they start talking it kills it for me. Ah.....Know exactly what you mean. Who wants to be standing there listening to some say "it's like", "I was like ", "like" in every sentence without actually getting to the point. All that teenage talk just drives me batty. As someone who already has a kid, I have no business with younger women as they might want kids, and am "not that guy". Older women it is for me, and from personal experience...they rock. Minus my ex of course 1
Author truth_seeker Posted February 14, 2014 Author Posted February 14, 2014 Seconded! I am 26 and never had any interest in games, or dating around, or leading someone on, or any of that crap. I take my personal relationships and other peoples' emotions very seriously. And I'm definitely not the only woman I know who feels that way. I'm sure more young women are into that than older.... but not all!!! You're a rare breed.
kaylan Posted February 14, 2014 Posted February 14, 2014 It depends where you are at in life. /thread
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