Shahcherry36 Posted February 13, 2014 Posted February 13, 2014 I met him 1st 1 and half year ago Really liked him alot but becoz of the fact of getting distracted from studies i ignored my feelings tho i knew that they wer very strong V wer in good touch for almost 4-5 months Then v lost touch V use to wish each other on festivals and birthdays Thats it Mean while he got a girlfriend...by now my feelings had almost fadded But the fact that he was my 1 st love and the guy whom i thot about in a special way.. Dint let me forget him.. We wer yet friends Actually GOOD FRIENDS uk how it is One day...randomly he is calling me...i m under ur house..come down fast..we will go for a drive I went to meet him It was like a nice reunion I met him aftr almost 1 and half year Had a great time I realized tht my feelings for him were rooted well within But i cudnt do anything abt it as he already had a gf After that day he started texting me daily That very day when i met him...he tld me that after meeting me he met his gf and they broke up I was lyk BANG...WAT HAD HAPPNED SUDDENLY THAT THEY BROKE UP Then for a month or sonething he texted me almost 4-5 times a week.. And then once midnight suddenly he texted me..heyy...and in talks he told me that he liked me alot...from the begining...i tld him that v wer not in touch since so long and that he had broken up a month back with a girl who he had dated for 10months He tld me that because of thathe cudnt tell me the reason of not telling me I was on cloud 9 So happy i was that cudnt even express But i took time to tell him a yes and to think abt the conseqenses Almost after 4 days he asked me my decision And i said a yes And v started dating V wer going to meet the next day But he camcled the date saying that he had to meet his friends I said okk The plan was being postponeded bcoz of the stupid reasons he gave me After 3 days in the morning he is coming and telling me..that i dnt thnk it will working..the reason he gave me that the relationship was becomeing very dice for him...and that he cud not hanndle his NIGHTOUTS with his friends. I mean i trusted him...and the reason he gave me for breakup was NIGHTOUTS I was heart broken It was not that our relationship had become very intense But For my feelings and respect for him was shattered I dint know wat to do Hardly 1-2 tears might have come out from my eyes But i can not stop thinking about it There is not a single hr in a day that i dnt thmk about him and whatever happend In those 3 days i got the happiness of being a girlfriend...but wat i wanted was the happiness of being his girlfriend... No 1 wud believethat he is so shameless that he texts me every single day as if nothing is wrong He dosnt even let me forget everything...i m just friends with him for the sake of the good times i have spent with him Thats it But now i want him to know my worth and value And want him to realise his mistake What shall i do...please tell me guyz I want to overcome what ever has happened Any repies r really appriciated Plz tel me wat do u think about my story And what shall i do now. Thanks for reading a imp part of mylife
TMichaels Posted February 13, 2014 Posted February 13, 2014 Thanks for reading a imp part of mylife Well, you made *reading* your story almost impossible because of using "text speak." If you want people to read your posts and give you advice you have to make it easy to do so not give them a headache while trying to decipher a wall of shorthand type. Regardless... Where did you "meet" this guy? Online? How old are you two? Is he the first time you've had a "boyfriend?" Other than the one time he showed up at your house have you spent any other time with each other in-person/face-to-face? How far away do the two of you live? Best, TMichaels 3
Author Shahcherry36 Posted February 13, 2014 Author Posted February 13, 2014 Hey Tmichaels I am really sorry for my language No i did not meet him online He is a family friend I met him 1st in the USA..1 and half year ago I am 17 years old..he is 1 year elder to me Yes it was the very 1st time i had a boyfriend. I was with him for a month in usa V shared great times together:'( But times change and so do people...!!
ThisGal Posted February 13, 2014 Posted February 13, 2014 I honestly did not read everything you wrote, it made my head hurt. I read something about you dating him after he ended a relationship but you saw him while he was in a relationship and so forth. You're only 17...skip this whole ordeal and and focus on something else other than boys. The end.
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