Confused2467 Posted February 13, 2014 Posted February 13, 2014 So there is this girl at school that I like and want to ask out. We hang out at school and talk some but have never hung out outside of school. I would like to become friends with her outside of school before asking her out. But my problem is how do you befriend a girl you like and ask her to hang out? If I ask her to the movies or to dinner I'm afraid she will think its a date. I'm also afraid if I do ask her to the movies and tell her that we're just going as friends then she will think I'm not interested in dating her. I thought about a group date but there not really up my alley for a number of reasons. Anyways I'm just wondering how to befriend her outside of school so I can become closer to her (doing stuff outside of school) and eventually ask her out on a date. I might even be completely wrong about the entire process but from my understanding it's best to befriend a girl and get to know her and then ask her out on a date. I've heard over and over to become friends and hang out with a girl before asking her out so I'm just wondering how I do this. Sorry if that was long lol. Thanks
LEEVIT2F8 Posted February 13, 2014 Posted February 13, 2014 Facebook my young friend. Shoot her a friend request. Talk to her on chat get to know her that way. It will all come natural you will be talking about your day whats happening on the weekend etc. She will either invite you along on something or you can ask her to join you on something. Your plan is 9 outta 10 times going to land you in the friend zone though. So be friends but make sure you hit on her enough that she knows your interested in her as more then a friend. And boom your in there.
Author Confused2467 Posted February 13, 2014 Author Posted February 13, 2014 Thanks for replying! We actually text and talk in person on a frequent basis already. And like you suggested I've given her a few signs that I like her romantically. You said I should ask her to join me on something. What exactly? The only thing I can think of is fishing since we both enjoy it but it's too cold for that right now. That's kinda the main thing I need help with is what to do with her? And please don't say movies or dinner like I said in my op I was iffy about both those ideas. Ps I live in a VERY small town with not that much to do
LEEVIT2F8 Posted February 13, 2014 Posted February 13, 2014 Im guessing your in high school? Do you have a car? Does she? Both of my boys are in high school. They generally invite girls to their sporting events. Meet up at the mall. School dances. We have a go cart, arcade, laser tag place they love to hang out at. Invite her over to play video games or watch a movie. Its winter maybe take her sledding with friends if its more comfortable. Where do the kids hang out in your town? And what is she into that you might have fun doing. Pick something shes really good at and have her teach you. She will love that.
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