Billy1995fifa Posted February 13, 2014 Posted February 13, 2014 I have always been nervous around girls i like. For a example i made friends with boys and girls in the holiday campsite last summer and there was this 1 girl i liked who was very shy around me all the time and when i was talking with my guy friends and the girl i like joined us sometimes and after i felt insecure around the girl i liked and sometimes i wanted to sit next to her and talk to her but i just could not do it half of the time. One time i was thinking of asking her to play mini golf with me one day but i was too nervous to ask. With girls i don't find attractive i can talk fine with them and don't feel insecure around them and guys. In the next 2/3 months i am going to step out of my comfort zone and make new friends at a bar and be more confident.around girls and maybe get a girlfriend. How to not be shy around girls? How to not be insecure around girls?
TheGuard13 Posted February 13, 2014 Posted February 13, 2014 Do you have a lot of friends who are girls? One of the ways to feel more secure around women is to get to know a lot of them. Then you'll see they're just people like you, with many of the sames fears and insecurities, and usually more afraid of you than you are of them. But honestly, sometimes you just have to sack up and do it, in terms of talking to girls or asking them out. Just because you're nervous or afraid doesn't mean you can't still act.
MaryJiltz Posted February 13, 2014 Posted February 13, 2014 Interact more with girls. ! We are a group of 7 girls and I notice that "boyboyboy" actually has become more confident now compared to before. I also noticed that he has become more touchy. But of course I won't allow him to touch me like he's so lucky being the only guy in the group.. . . Even if he's not good looking, I won't allow him to think highly of himself.. duh...
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