rastamoose Posted February 13, 2014 Posted February 13, 2014 After I broke up with my ex I started seeing this over girl. I wasn't totally attracted to her best we got on really well. She told me many times that she really liked me and I didn't like it, I didn't want her to feel bad that I didn't like her back. I always tried to keep my distance from her so she wouldn't get too attached. Anyway, recently she started seeing this other guy n got quite serious with him. Now they are official and I am pissed off. What kind of prick have I turned into? One that doesn't want to be with her but doesn't like the fact that she is with someone else. Kinda like I want everyone to like me and no one else Mad!
oohlala Posted February 13, 2014 Posted February 13, 2014 You know, I think what you're feeling is normal to a degree - just for God's holy earth do not tell her anything that suggests you are interested NOW. Last year I went through a period of time where I didn't have a lot of time to meet people because of my job and work commute, and I wasted a LOT of time with someone who was a great fit for me and he agreed, but he'd just got out of a 4-year long relationship and wasn't "ready" to be in another one. By the time my life slowed down a little I started meeting other guys and wound up booking my b-day/Valentine's week STRAIGHT with men who were over the moon to just share space with me. I decided (too quickly) to get involved with one of them, and I broke it to the guy who wasn't ready for a relationship that I was ready to start devoting time to other relationships. So I was no longer as available as I used to be. Changed his mind OVERNIGHT. So I stupidly decided to give him another chance, and he backed out AGAIN on his "relationship" ideas. I finally dumped him for good and moved on, and I have an amazing boyfriend now. The other guy still texts me and Tweets me occasionally, and he misses me, but I just don't have time for that and I'm ashamed I made time for him in the past.
superb Posted February 13, 2014 Posted February 13, 2014 After I broke up with my ex I started seeing this over girl. I wasn't totally attracted to her best we got on really well. She told me many times that she really liked me and I didn't like it, I didn't want her to feel bad that I didn't like her back. I always tried to keep my distance from her so she wouldn't get too attached. Anyway, recently she started seeing this other guy n got quite serious with him. Now they are official and I am pissed off. What kind of prick have I turned into? One that doesn't want to be with her but doesn't like the fact that she is with someone else. Kinda like I want everyone to like me and no one else Mad! You clearly like her attention but that's not fair to her.
aussietigerwolf Posted February 13, 2014 Posted February 13, 2014 I had an ex like that... if he had my interest then I was the most unwanted intrusion in his life and if I had moved on then he tried EVERYTHING to get me back. I ended up changing my number and blocking him on facebook. he didn't want me but couldn't stand it if I wasn't desperately after his attention.
HappyLove Posted February 13, 2014 Posted February 13, 2014 After I broke up with my ex I started seeing this over girl. I wasn't totally attracted to her best we got on really well. She told me many times that she really liked me and I didn't like it, I didn't want her to feel bad that I didn't like her back. I always tried to keep my distance from her so she wouldn't get too attached. Anyway, recently she started seeing this other guy n got quite serious with him. Now they are official and I am pissed off. What kind of prick have I turned into? One that doesn't want to be with her but doesn't like the fact that she is with someone else. Kinda like I want everyone to like me and no one else Mad! Yes why are you men like this? The girl that's educated, kind, pretty, and GASP tells you that she likes you, you want nothing to do with. So many guys do this, but the girl who treats them like crap and has nothing going for herself is who you run after.
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