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i met her at the gym. i suggested we should hang out. she laughed and said yes i asked for her number.This was on saturday i called her monday evening. she didnt have my number so she asked who is this? when i told her my name she laughed, she said she was somewhat busy so i said bye. what should i do? did i blow it

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No you didn't blow it. She doesn't sound too interested overall but there's nothing to lose by calling her again and asking if she's free for dinner on Friday. You'll know either way, then.

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i met her at the gym. i suggested we should hang out. she laughed and said yes i asked for her number.This was on saturday i called her monday evening. she didnt have my number so she asked who is this? when i told her my name she laughed, she said she was somewhat busy so i said bye. what should i do? did i blow it

 

She said she was busy and never called you back, suggested if she could call you back, text you at least? You didn't blow it. I don't think she sounds interested.

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I'd try once more if she has another excuse, leave her alone.

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i called her around 9pm. she sounded like she was interested when i asked her out.

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i called her around 9pm. she sounded like she was interested when i asked her out.

 

You can call her one more time.

 

It's pretty simple. If a guy sparks my interest and calls me, I'l be sure to call him back. But you can surely take another chance. She may be playing hard to get.

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should i text her this time instead of calling?

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should i text her this time instead of calling?

 

Call or text is fine. Maybe text because then there will be no excuse as to why she doesn't respond to you and if call, not cut you off and use a somewhat busy excuse.

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Never call a girl after getting her #. Always text.

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Never call a girl after getting her #. Always text.

 

 

And why is that??

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Never call a girl after getting her #. Always text.

 

I think a real man calls for the first date a coward texts.

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Never call a girl after getting her #. Always text.

 

Why is that?

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To be fair, you may have overestimated her interest level in the beginning.

 

Call or text, it doesn't matter. Ask her out, see how it goes. You'll have your answer soon enough.

 

From the reaction she gave from your call, I would judge that she isn't interested. But, we can't tell you how she is feeling.

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