Is this normal that i want my girlfriend to meet my parents/family early on?

[Billy1995fifa]

When i get a girlfriend and we been dating for over 2/3 weeks, our relationship has been going well.

 

I get this feeling that i always want my girlfriend to meet my parents/family after only 1 week or couple weeks of dating each other because i feel it is a VERY good thing to do after started dating each other and always feel we going stay togather for a long time.

 

I'm nearly 19 and i'm not of those ''douche bags'' that use girls just for sex.

I am ALWAYS in it for the long run and serious about my girlfriend/relationship.

 

Is this normal that i want my girlfriend to meet my parents/family early on after we started dating?

 

FOR GIRLS: How would you feel if your boyfriend wants you to meet his parents/family after you 2 started dating?

 

Anyways i have never had a girlfriend but i always feel after we started dating(getting a girlfriend) that i would want my girlfriend to meet my parents/family?

[TaraMaiden]

You're young.

I think you still seek their approval.

 

"Here, this is my latest GF! What do you guys think? Did I make a good choice?"

 

If I was your GF, I definitely would feel as if I'm being paraded for assessment....

[yellowmaverick]

2-3 weeks is a little early, IMO. Most couples know that "meeting the parents" makes a statement that the relationship is not just casual, so you may scare her off by bringing this up too early.

 

Take time to get to know her and if all goes well, take her home to meet the folks in a couple of months.

[whichwayisup]

Way too soon. No way would I introduce a new guy after a few weeks of dating, let alone, no way would I want to meet his family.

 

It's too much pressure and there's automatic expectations with strings attached if you bring her to meet your folks.

 

Anyways i have never had a girlfriend but i always feel after we started dating(getting a girlfriend) that i would want my girlfriend to meet my parents/family?

 

if anything, meeting your friends is probably better and will be more comfortable for her.

 

In the meantime, enjoy getting to know her and have fun.

[Shepp]

Being a village boy I've never really been in the situation where gf/friends/anyone didn't know who my family were already.

 

I would want to introduce her to my family quick too because her liking my family would be absolutely 100% essential, if she didn't we'd be dust.......so as much as id like to know that quickly I wouldn't do it because it would freak a girl out too much! So id refrain.

[Billy1995fifa]

What about if i want my girlfriend and me to hang out at my (my parents) house in the 1st couple weeks in the relationship and she agrees to hang out at my parents house.

 

With my parents at my house, i got no choice but to have my girlfriend meeting my parents

 

I am sure my parents would want to meet my girlfriend after i got a girlfriend and been togather/dating after 2/3 weeks.

 

So tell me this when you have a friend that you known for 2/3 weeks to invite her/he over to meet your parents and to hang out would you be thinking in your minds it be "too early"" to want your "new" friend to meet your parents? I don't think so.

 

When i am getting to know the girl as friends in a group and on 1 and 1 hang outs for a couple weeks and decided to start dating, boyfriend/girlfriend and after couple weeks feel that it is a good time to get my girlfriend to meet my parents, i go for it because we got to know each other a bit as friends before we started dating.

 

So why wait a while(6months+) in a relationship/dating to get my girlfriend to meet my parents??

There is no point to wait that long(6 months+) to get my girlfriend to meet my parents.

 

What are the chances of me waiting a couple months just to get my girlfriend to meet my parents? The chances of me waiting that long are very slim and pretty much non existent and even when i moved out of my parents house when i am older, it would be the same thing.

 

The limit that i would wait is 2 months MAX!

 

After i got my girlfriend i will tell my friends and my parents and my little sister that i have a girlfriend and ask my parents if they want to meet my girlfriend in the next few weeks (if they agree if not i would have to wait of course).

Edited February 12, 2014 by Billy1995fifa

[veggirl]

How many girls have you introduced to your parents? Aren't they kinda like "geez another one?" if you intro every girl you date for a couple weeks to them? Or do your relationships last so there have only been a couple girls?

[pickflicker]

When i get a girlfriend and we been dating for over 2/3 weeks, our relationship has been going well.

 

I get this feeling that i always want my girlfriend to meet my parents/family after only 1 week or couple weeks of dating each other because i feel it is a VERY good thing to do after started dating each other and always feel we going stay togather for a long time.

 

I'm nearly 19 and i'm not of those ''douche bags'' that use girls just for sex.

I am ALWAYS in it for the long run and serious about my girlfriend/relationship.

 

Is this normal that i want my girlfriend to meet my parents/family early on after we started dating?

 

FOR GIRLS: How would you feel if your boyfriend wants you to meet his parents/family after you 2 started dating?

 

Anyways i have never had a girlfriend but i always feel after we started dating(getting a girlfriend) that i would want my girlfriend to meet my parents/family?

 

You can ask, but if I were your girlfriend, I would refuse. You wouldn't be meeting my family until after at least 6 months, I wouldn't feel comfortable meeting yours after a few weeks.