scooby-philly Posted February 12, 2014 Posted February 12, 2014 Ok - so my last post was silly. It was a brain dump but it was still helpful to write. So if this is a brain dump, I apologize. I'm looking for advice from people - particularly from women. So I started talking to a woman through match.com We talked for two weeks online and she beat me to the punch in giving me her number. We talked once and it was a good conversation. She had suggested we go for a walk when she gave me her number. When we talked & texted we agreed on brunch. It went great. I sent her a nice note the next day and she agreed with my feeling - I mean we literally sat down for well over two hours without a lapse in the conversation - we both blushed at different points and kept smiling and while there wasn't a kiss at the end she immediately agreed to keep talking and we talked once and texted once after that. I'm looking for something serious. I hope she is too. I asked her out for the weekend but she said she's busy but maybe we could do something next week. Now, she gave me her number first, and she was okay with brunch even though she had gone out three nights in a row before that. I think that means she's interested. I know it takes time to find and get to know someone. She's 29, in healthcare, and I find her very attractive - both physically and from a emotional/etc standpoint. Her profile says she's divorced so she may be careful and slow about things. I'm fine with that. WHat I'd like to know is how can I keep her interested and keep the success of the first date going without coming off like a creeper or making her feel uncomfortable. I sent her a smile via text yesterday afternoon after thinking about something she said and that prompted a good, I think, text exchange last night. I paid her a nice compliment which she accepted and she said we'll talk later this week. Again, if we can't go out again till next I'm okay with that, but how can I get her to keep talking to me in the meantime without coming off too strong and maybe see if there's a way to get her to initiate something. I've gone on enough dates to know I feel a strong sense of compatibility and attraction on my part - I think I can sense it from her.
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