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Trust issues - not sure how to deal with this?


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This shows immaturity. Give her another chance and if she does it again, consider if you want to be with someone who not only breaks your trust but also lies to you about it.

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No, not all women share bedroom details. That's in how to keep a man, chapter one. Women sometimes run their mouth with how big and great their man is then low & behold he somehow runs off with their best friend. This happens a lot. Some women have to get burned to learn better.

 

I'd personally never do that because I'd respect my man and myself. It's not cute. I think most people, man or woman, who do this they are not in a serious committed relationship so they see it as no big deal. If you see that person as wife or husband material you would never do it. How many men disrespect their wife like that? How many women would do that to their husband? Not many. I think it says a lot about the level of your relationship if you do this and think it's ok.

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I'm sure not every girl runs and tells every detail. Its natural to talk about sex with your friends. Its shocking to me that you have never discussed an encounter with your friends. Or they tell you things.

 

Not once a OMG he was huge! Or you ever have a guy say this to you in the middle of it? Or wow it was amazing? Or I don't think its going to work the bedroom chemistry just isn't there. You didn't talk about your first time with your friends or they with you?

I have certainly not discussed the size or prowess of my lovers with any of my friends! I don't know what kind of people you hang out with but I can assure you that many of us don't engage in that kind of talk. Yes some will but many of us don't. There are people that talk like this especially after drinking but many of us don't. I'm sorry that it's shocking for you, maybe you need to find better class of people.

My point to the OP was don't worry, it happens all the time. Just assume they are going to tell their friends everything and get over yourself a little. It shouldn't be a huge deal in my opinion.

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