ThatGirl213 Posted February 12, 2014 Posted February 12, 2014 Hi everyone... Does "what goes around come all the back around" really exist? Does bad karma really come and bite you in the ass later on? I mean cheaters always prosper. Never seen a cheater who completes regrets his action but rather he/she only regrets being caught. They never really get back the pain they have caused. May be several years later, they may have a little regret, if not any for their actions and the pain they caused. What do you guys think?
David87 Posted February 12, 2014 Posted February 12, 2014 What goes around comes around, just wait and see.
Musing Posted February 12, 2014 Posted February 12, 2014 I don't completely discount cosmic forces in anything, crazy stuff happens. I love philosophizing about it - karma, fate, free will, destiny - all very interesting stuff to talk about and the conversations that come with those are limitless. That said, I do believe in karma...but not for its cosmic novelty. If someone is inexperienced, or it is in their character to treat badly or make bad decisions, then what they having "coming to them" is simply a result of their consistent actions. I'll explain: I had saw a guy back in high school who was known to be a pathological liar (at the time, I did not know/see this, just heard it from others after the BU) He's get girls hot and bothered, lie to them with promises of "love" and all that, and then leave. Most of these girls were damaged or insecure/vulnerable - I being the latter. Because of his little habit, he was bound to get one crazy that was after him. And he did. She chased him with a knife. But his actions lead to that, it was in his character to pursue unhealthy relationships and damage them even more. So it made sense. Conversely, my first LTR was a great guy and a sweetheart. He was very relationship oriented and put others before himself. Because he treated people with such respect, he was bound to find a girl who would admire him, and he did. For me, the codependent, I never focused on myself. I was always looking to a new relationship because I enjoyed the rush. So the guys I met, also enjoyed the rush and things often go too fast or I don't get to the point of knowing them well enough before leaping, so I get burned. Some cheaters "prosper" because on the outside it looks like what they want, and maybe it is. They get the golden ticket: they got away with it. But all that glitters is not gold. The cheaters are with someone who (I might get burned for this) will accept their cheating. IMO, this says something about the person they are cheating with. That person is likely insecure and would settle. Most stable people would look at that in itself as a red flag. ..How do I know? That first guy I mentioned...he cheated on his one girlfriend with me, and I'm a codependent so I excused it and blamed the other girl, not the source. And I got the same treatment in the end. But he eventually found someone crazy because he could not get a healthy female - just the crazy or insecure ones. Hope this kind of makes sense.
SadNLonley Posted February 12, 2014 Posted February 12, 2014 I definitely believe in Karma. Somewhere sometime I must have done something wrong because since my breakup i feel like Karma is kicking my ass. Bad things keep happening to me or my life around me. It sucks. I wasn't even the dumper.
LostConfused123 Posted February 12, 2014 Posted February 12, 2014 I definitely believe in Karma. Somewhere sometime I must have done something wrong because since my breakup i feel like Karma is kicking my ass. Bad things keep happening to me or my life around me. It sucks. I wasn't even the dumper. I have felt that way too. As hard as I'm trying to move on, I feel like I'm getting "tripped" sometimes even hitting as brick wall. Almost like the universe doesn't want me to get over him. I know that's ridiculous. . . Hahaha!! but jeez!! sometimes
amaysngrace Posted February 12, 2014 Posted February 12, 2014 I believe in everything mystical because how else am I suppose to have my fairy tale and live happily ever after?! 1
Philosoraptor Posted February 12, 2014 Posted February 12, 2014 You are the masters of your own destiny. If you feel miserable it's because you are allowing yourselves to feel so. Karma isn't something that comes and gets you instantly when you've done bad. And honestly, wishing someone to get pain would be negative karma towards you. Forgive them, wish them well, and focus on your own happiness. Again, masters of your own destiny. If you're not moving forward it's because you are impeding your progress. If you have the full desire to take control of your life you will do the things necessary to do so. Grab the bull by the horns so to speak. Any blips that happen won't matter because if you're fully dedicated to moving on and finding happiness in your life, they won't stand in your way.
pickflicker Posted February 12, 2014 Posted February 12, 2014 No, there is no such thing as a cosmic bitch-slap.
Zahara Posted February 12, 2014 Posted February 12, 2014 Hi everyone... Does "what goes around come all the back around" really exist? Does bad karma really come and bite you in the ass later on? I mean cheaters always prosper. Never seen a cheater who completes regrets his action but rather he/she only regrets being caught. They never really get back the pain they have caused. May be several years later, they may have a little regret, if not any for their actions and the pain they caused. What do you guys think? Cheaters that cheat and feel no remorse have limited conscience and empathy. It's futile wishing and hoping they get their comeuppance. They don't see the wrong in their ways. They are wired differently. The best revenge is living well. And you'll never know if they regret, learn a lesson, change, etc. because by that time you will be living life and enjoying it.
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