BDL Posted February 13, 2014 Posted February 13, 2014 Ugh. Sounds familiar. The guy I was dating- things were going well- then he bumps into his ex gf - bam! Backslides. I swear these ex-gfs have a radar or something. But I suppose- this is your true test. Are you over her? Yes, I am over her. She displayed all the classic cheater signs; the breaking point was when she became paranoid around her phone and when I confronted her about it, she deleted all the texts with this guy. Broke up with her right there and then. No trust left. Two years destroyed. No going back to her. I've forgiven her since then. No hatred, just understanding and forgiveness. My true test... I'm so over her that for her birthday coming up this June, I plan to make a photobook with photos of her (just pics of her, not us together) that I took of her during our time together. It's my "parting" gift for she was very, very loving and caring of me before the breakup. The gift is something she can look back on of her youth when she is old and gray.
WhiteTan Posted February 14, 2014 Posted February 14, 2014 Yes, I am over her. She displayed all the classic cheater signs; the breaking point was when she became paranoid around her phone and when I confronted her about it, she deleted all the texts with this guy. Broke up with her right there and then. No trust left. Two years destroyed. No going back to her. I've forgiven her since then. No hatred, just understanding and forgiveness. My true test... I'm so over her that for her birthday coming up this June, I plan to make a photobook with photos of her (just pics of her, not us together) that I took of her during our time together. It's my "parting" gift for she was very, very loving and caring of me before the breakup. The gift is something she can look back on of her youth when she is old and gray. Hm.. you're so over her that you're making her your own personalized birthday present...
David87 Posted February 14, 2014 Posted February 14, 2014 Geez BDL you are soo not over your ex. You are definitely in denial.
makaveli Posted February 14, 2014 Posted February 14, 2014 I have never celebrated V-Day, single or not! Hahaha
David87 Posted February 14, 2014 Posted February 14, 2014 Well when you are in a relationship you kinda have to give your girlfriend flovers and a box of heart shaped chocolates.
Author bubblesbursted Posted February 14, 2014 Author Posted February 14, 2014 Not having the greatest day anyway -.- ugh this su*ks
ponchsox Posted February 14, 2014 Posted February 14, 2014 My plan is to have a normal day and not worry about a silly commercial holiday.
counterman Posted February 14, 2014 Posted February 14, 2014 My day sucks so far. The weather is crap. The restaurants I wanted to go to were all booked out for Valentines
BDL Posted February 14, 2014 Posted February 14, 2014 Hm.. you're so over her that you're making her your own personalized birthday present... It's something my sister suggested that I do for the women I care for. I still care for my ex, even though I don't need or want her in my life anymore. I was looking through photos of us together and felt indifferent. Geez BDL you are soo not over your ex. You are definitely in denial. Yeah, it does seem like that doesn't it? I'm looking forward to Valentine's day with the new girl. She gets off work at 7, so after a late dinner, I don't know what else to do. Maybe take her to an ice cream parlor, take a drive around the city and then head back to her place for some drinks and who knows what else...
nerd Posted February 14, 2014 Posted February 14, 2014 Apparently there are a couple of apocryphal (wikipedia refers to them as hagiographic) stories about St. Valentine - basically an early Christian who was executed by the roman empire. So you could always celebrate by commemorating the poor guy's death. Probably more fun than mourning silly relationships
cry.of.the.blackbird Posted February 14, 2014 Posted February 14, 2014 Aww, I'm the same boat over here too. My break up happened on Wednesday and well, he and I had plans for Valentines. Don't think it's happening now. My plans today are to do something nice for myself, as I have been crying for two days straight! I'm going to go to my gym and go for a tan ( I never go tanning, but thought maybe the warmth could help me) I will most definitely use the sauna while I'm there and sweat this pain out...cleanse! Since eating is hard right now, I'll make myself a fancy smoothie and thankfully I will go to work tonight....never thought I'd be happy to go there, but anything that keeps me occupied is good right now! Happy Valentines everyone....maybe next year huh?! 1
picnicinthepark Posted February 14, 2014 Posted February 14, 2014 Not having the greatest day anyway -.- ugh this su*ks EVERYTHING IS GOING TO BE OKAY! Today is a day for yourself so go nuts. I'm going to pick up some new running gear for my half marathon in May and maybe hit up the golf dome and work on my swing for the upcoming season. Today is exactly like any other Friday bubble... Just sit back and relax. Maybe you can fire up the Netflix and get lost in a new series? Indulge in your favourite treat? Have a few drinks? I know I will! I hope everyone has the best day!
mantlefan Posted February 14, 2014 Posted February 14, 2014 7 months post-BU, 1.5 months post-finding out she left me for my friend. I got sick with an eye infection in June. While I was home sick for that week, she spent a lot of time with my friend. Probably fell for him that week. Today, just because it was when they could get me in, I had an eye doctor's appointment for new glasses. So on the day when people are supposedly supposed to think about the one they love the most, I go to the doctor that reminds me of the event that gave my ex a lot of free time to spend with the guy she ended up leaving me for. And you know what? That's pretty damn funny, actually. What did a learn from all this? Wash your hands before you rub your eyes, or your girlfriend of 5 years will decide in the week that you are inaccessible with pink eye to dump you for your friend 1
hurts2death Posted February 14, 2014 Posted February 14, 2014 i like that last frase.it is how you see the thing after you almost healed.its a cold funny sth. lol.the exact opposite of the emotional pain of the first days.7 months post-BU, 1.5 months post-finding out she left me for my friend. I got sick with an eye infection in June. While I was home sick for that week, she spent a lot of time with my friend. Probably fell for him that week. Today, just because it was when they could get me in, I had an eye doctor's appointment for new glasses. So on the day when people are supposedly supposed to think about the one they love the most, I go to the doctor that reminds me of the event that gave my ex a lot of free time to spend with the guy she ended up leaving me for. And you know what? That's pretty damn funny, actually. What did a learn from all this? Wash your hands before you rub your eyes, or your girlfriend of 5 years will decide in the week that you are inaccessible with pink eye to dump you for your friend
SoonMyFriend Posted February 14, 2014 Posted February 14, 2014 6 month Post BU. I am going for dinner with a good friend who moved out of town last Spring. Really looking forward to seeing her. However, I've spent most of the day feeling like crap. On my period, moody as hell, and am realizing I guy I've been crushing on the last couple of weeks has zero interest in me so my self confidence is quite low. Didn't think today would bother me, but it is. BUT dinner should be a great distraction. Also, chocolate. Good luck fellow single kids
radiodarcy Posted February 14, 2014 Posted February 14, 2014 Finish digging my car out of the snow cave that formed around it last night (it's been an all day process ) and then try to make a run to PetSmart. Then watch Ghost World for the 500th time on DVD while eating a dinner of sweet potato fries and chocolate pudding
WhiteTan Posted February 14, 2014 Posted February 14, 2014 (edited) It's something my sister suggested that I do for the women I care for. I still care for my ex, even though I don't need or want her in my life anymore. I was looking through photos of us together and felt indifferent. Bad idea. she's your ex.and making her a gift is inappropriate. It will basically send the message to her that you can't move on from her and you'll look pathetic. You can justify yourself by saying you feel indifferent but actions speak louder than words. Edited February 14, 2014 by WhiteTan
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