rosedl Posted February 12, 2014 Posted February 12, 2014 It looks like shoveling snow as my region is in the bulls eye for the worst of the Northeast storm. I will probably take my dogs out to romp in the snow, maybe go spend some time with friends, take some photos and try not to fantasize my ex will come to his god forsaken senses and realize what a stupid decision he made and send me ten bouquets of flowers and beg me to marry him. As I know that won't happen, keep myself distracted and treat it like any other day. Which it really is.... 1
Gemini x Posted February 12, 2014 Posted February 12, 2014 There's this movie coming out Friday called "Endless Love". Prior to my BU I was wanting to go see it. Now, every time I see the preview on tv I burst out in tears. I actually feel less today than I did yesterday which tells me I'm going to be okay but there's triggers everywhere and that sucks.
lionheart153 Posted February 12, 2014 Posted February 12, 2014 There's this movie coming out Friday called "Endless Love". Prior to my BU I was wanting to go see it. Now, every time I see the preview on tv I burst out in tears. I actually feel less today than I did yesterday which tells me I'm going to be okay but there's triggers everywhere and that sucks. God I am sick of hearing about it on the radio and crap. Im sick of all the engagement and v-day crap. lol Worst month for dumpees. 1
LostConfused123 Posted February 12, 2014 Posted February 12, 2014 It looks like shoveling snow as my region is in the bulls eye for the worst of the Northeast storm. I will probably take my dogs out to romp in the snow, maybe go spend some time with friends, take some photos and try not to fantasize my ex will come to his god forsaken senses and realize what a stupid decision he made and send me ten bouquets of flowers and beg me to marry him. As I know that won't happen, keep myself distracted and treat it like any other day. Which it really is.... That really cracked me up!! NOT laughing at your pain but your great attitude. Also, the fantasy!!! Yeah, I have let the same scenario creep into my head and in my case, it truly is laughable! Hope you have a great day anyway! Best of luck! ((hugs!!))
LostConfused123 Posted February 12, 2014 Posted February 12, 2014 God I am sick of hearing about it on the radio and crap. Im sick of all the engagement and v-day crap. lol Worst month for dumpees. I know huh. Barf!!
seekingpeaceinlove Posted February 12, 2014 Posted February 12, 2014 Going to Victoria's Secret to buy the sexiest set of bra & panties. Then will traipse around town with my lovely girl friends donning said bra & panty under an equally sexy outfit. The girls and I will eat, drink and dance. No chance I'm staying home alone to remind myself that it would have been 2 year anniversary with ex on V-day. 4
mantlefan Posted February 12, 2014 Posted February 12, 2014 Going to the eye doctor and watching House of Cards on Netflix. It's hard to find a show that could cultivate more cynicism, and that exactly what valentine's day needs more of. 2
Wings Of Love Posted February 12, 2014 Posted February 12, 2014 I'm going to buy myself a big box of chocolates, find a film and enjoy a night in alone. No reason why I can't show myself some love! I also received a Valentine's card in the post a few days ago, but the message on the front says not to open it until Friday. I'm pretty sure it's from my best friend because she knows I've been feeling quite low the last few weeks, but she's playing innocent at the moment. xD It's such a lovely gesture, I'm looking forward to seeing what she has to say. I hope everyone here has a lovely day, and finds something fun to occupy themselves.
redbaron005 Posted February 13, 2014 Posted February 13, 2014 Ordered flowers for my grandmother and flew down to spend time with her and my cousins new kid named after my mom. They will be my valentines. Booked the ticket 1 day into NC to keep myself motivated. Oh and skydiving for the first time the next morning won't hurt either. 3
organizedchaos Posted February 13, 2014 Posted February 13, 2014 Right now, no plans. Probably hang with friends. I actually could have probably made plans with this one girl but we've only had two dates and it would be weird and she actually agreed, so we're doing something Saturday. And there's another one where I'm having a second date tonight and it too would be weird. I just don't care this year.
Keii Posted February 13, 2014 Posted February 13, 2014 Hotpot, ice cream and macarons with a bunch of awesome and single friends also...board games and Olympics! 3
Author bubblesbursted Posted February 13, 2014 Author Posted February 13, 2014 I'm thinking : breakfast the whole day (yum!) and send flowers to alll my single friends , then watch some anti-romance movies , talk to some friends, be on LS and sleep. Ahh! perfect day 2
David87 Posted February 13, 2014 Posted February 13, 2014 Bubblesbursted why don't you go out with your girlfriends? 1
Author bubblesbursted Posted February 13, 2014 Author Posted February 13, 2014 Bubblesbursted why don't you go out with your girlfriends? I cant tolerate all the lovey dovey crap outside. Plus the happy couples. It woukd make me sick
David87 Posted February 13, 2014 Posted February 13, 2014 Most of them will break up so no worries:) 4
counterman Posted February 13, 2014 Posted February 13, 2014 I'll send a message to some of my single friends and give them some love. I was thinking about going to a Valentines event at a club, but part of me doesn't feel right. I want to meet other girls but don't think I'm ready, even if it's just a bit of fun. I'll have brunch, anything I want to eat. Watching some comedy movies, to get me laughing. Will hope on LS to be with you guys that are hurting right now. Then I'm going to cry myself to sleep with a bottle of whisky in my hand.
Keii Posted February 13, 2014 Posted February 13, 2014 I love ice cream and macaroons. They are definitely awesome! Even better with friends
tlegend Posted February 13, 2014 Posted February 13, 2014 I will be spending time with my son, my 1 and only true valentine for the rest of my life.
hurts2death Posted February 13, 2014 Posted February 13, 2014 (edited) hey dumpees of the world. chin up. i was a dumpee. i was maybe king of the dumpees.my name says a lot. half a year later i see the light. i sense soul freedom and valendines day does mean almost nothing for me. i focus on my carreer. on developing all aspects.physical and mental. so this is the first valentines day i feel so inlove and full with my self. Edited February 13, 2014 by hurts2death
signal Posted February 13, 2014 Posted February 13, 2014 Would have gone gym but it's going to be packed. So will probally get a bottle of wine and takeaway and watch tv. I know my ex is going to a london theatre show with her new date. NC 34 days 1
sleeplessinslc Posted February 13, 2014 Posted February 13, 2014 Broke up with my exGF mid November 2013. Went strict NC on Christmas Eve. I was an absolute wreck, going so far as having night sweats and needing to take sleeping pills for 2-3 weeks but still waking up at 2 in the morning. Told most of my friends and people I knew about the breakup, and they set me up with some single females. I didn't feel like dating at all, but forced myself to go out and have fun. Met this amazing GORGEOUS girl, and have been seeing her for a month now. We are spending Valentine's together going out to a Thai place, and perhaps having drinks at her place. I am so happy. Never thought I could get to this happy place. Funny thing, a couple days ago, I started to imagine that this girl is someone I will want to marry one day. And I'm thinking this pragmatically, without wearing the proverbial rose-coloured glasses that often happens when someone is swept up romantically with a new love. Then an hour later, my ex (who I havent heard from for 6 weeks) emailed me and then texted a couple hours after that asking how I was doing? It's like she knew I had moved on. Ugh. Sounds familiar. The guy I was dating- things were going well- then he bumps into his ex gf - bam! Backslides. I swear these ex-gfs have a radar or something. But I suppose- this is your true test. Are you over her?
lovesucks76 Posted February 13, 2014 Posted February 13, 2014 I'm meeting this new girl for lunch tomorrow. Nothing romantic yet. She had asked me out to lunch and just happens that we made plans on Vanlentine's day. To be honest I was so heartbroken over my ex that when I said "Friday is perfect" I had no idea it was V-day! Not going to cancel but it will be tough. I loved my ex more than I had loved anyone before. I would have moved mountains for her. This new girl is just a friend but I can tell she wants more...not sure if I can warm up to her just yet. It has been 6 weeks since breakup...maybe too soon! At night, I will drink some beers by myself and go to bed early. Not in the mood to party or make small talk.
OzHeartache Posted February 13, 2014 Posted February 13, 2014 Ughhh... Valentines Day here in Sydney and I just want it to &^%$ off and Die already !!!!
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