emptyheart84 Posted February 12, 2014 Posted February 12, 2014 I just don't know what else to do anymore. I'm beginning to think, I will never be in a steady and even happy relationship. The system has changed so much with relationships now. When I was younger it was so much easier, I just turned 30 yesterday. I haven't been in a relationship in 7 years. All my friends are either getting married or in relationships happy. I feel like such a sucker alone and pathetic. 7 years is such a long time to be alone, I feel so horrible about myself. I do date and occasionally sleep with other women but i'm not happy with it. It sucks when I have to be the third wheel OR alone all over the place. (Weddings, Get together, Out to eat ) I just lost my job 3 weeks ago, which I was there for 4 years of my life. I was even happy with myself for the first 3 years of being single but then as I was more alone I got sad. I tried to stop searching, I tried dating sites went on dates, but to no avail. they did not work well. Its' either I seem to never get attached or they don't seem to work with me because im not the best looking guy. The last 2 women I fell for, left me for older men with a lot more money. (Savages) I know there are great women out there, but why don't I seem to find at least one that I can be atleast happy with. It's been 7 years. Pathetic ! PS: since 2011 I Quit Smoking, Thought Positive, Dressed more of a gentlemen, took out most of the negative in my life,
David87 Posted February 12, 2014 Posted February 12, 2014 I just don't know what else to do anymore. I'm beginning to think, I will never be in a steady and even happy relationship. The system has changed so much with relationships now. When I was younger it was so much easier, I just turned 30 yesterday. I haven't been in a relationship in 7 years. All my friends are either getting married or in relationships happy. I feel like such a sucker alone and pathetic. 7 years is such a long time to be alone, I feel so horrible about myself. I do date and occasionally sleep with other women but i'm not happy with it. It sucks when I have to be the third wheel OR alone all over the place. (Weddings, Get together, Out to eat ) I just lost my job 3 weeks ago, which I was there for 4 years of my life. I was even happy with myself for the first 3 years of being single but then as I was more alone I got sad. I tried to stop searching, I tried dating sites went on dates, but to no avail. they did not work well. Its' either I seem to never get attached or they don't seem to work with me because im not the best looking guy. The last 2 women I fell for, left me for older men with a lot more money. (Savages) I know there are great women out there, but why don't I seem to find at least one that I can be atleast happy with. It's been 7 years. Pathetic ! PS: since 2011 I Quit Smoking, Thought Positive, Dressed more of a gentlemen, took out most of the negative in my life, You are going on this dates with the wrong attitude, it's like you know you will fail. Try being more positive and build up your confidence. You are still young and I guarantee that you will find your other half at some point in your life. Just never never quit.
HappyLove Posted February 12, 2014 Posted February 12, 2014 What are your standards for a woman's looks? Some people want a 10 on their arm when it's the 6 that would respect you and treat you like a king. Maybe you have unrealistic expectations of women? I say start giving women a chance who you wouldn't normally give a chance. Clearly the ones you are going after are a waste of time and you are lonely. Seven years of doing the same thing is screaming for different actions. And I say start approaching women when out, strike up simple conversations and ask for their number. It's better than OLD. They say to have something you've never had you have to do something you've never done.
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