cavalier99 Posted February 12, 2014 Posted February 12, 2014 Guess it is back to the drill. Ill give her a couple days to see if she comes around. She is a hot blooded latina and there might be some hope. Might just be mad at something i did. Seems sorta like an over reaction. Anyway. Then block and pure NC and erase her out of existence. I wont beg and plead. Rock on !!!!!!! Cav 1
David87 Posted February 12, 2014 Posted February 12, 2014 Well Cav you know what to do, no biggie . 1
pickflicker Posted February 12, 2014 Posted February 12, 2014 Guess it is back to the drill. Ill give her a couple days to see if she comes around. She is a hot blooded latina and there might be some hope. Might just be mad at something i did. Seems sorta like an over reaction. Anyway. Then block and pure NC and erase her out of existence. I wont beg and plead. Rock on !!!!!!! Cav Oh dude, I'm sorry. :-( Hope you're ok. If you feel up to it, please document when you can, I feel there are many here that need your wisdom. God luck to you, whatever happens. 3
Author cavalier99 Posted February 12, 2014 Author Posted February 12, 2014 (edited) I feel much more centered this time. i sure hope it is easier than the last BU. Im sure it is going to hit sorta hard sooner or later. Or maybe not?? Ill keep everyone posted. Woooo hoooo!! Edited February 12, 2014 by cavalier99 4
ConfusedHumanBeing Posted February 12, 2014 Posted February 12, 2014 Guess it is back to under drill. Ill give her a couple days to see if she comes around. She is a hot blooded latina and there might be some hope. Might just be mad at something i did. Seems sorta like an over reaction. Anyway. Then block and pure NC and erase her out of existence. I wont beg and plead. Rock on !!!!!!! Cav Wow that sucks!!! I saw the title and saw Cav as the author. Good god man...when good people like yourself get hit, I believe in relationships less. Sorry to hear that man. As one of the first people to ever help me (along with Simon and others) I feel its my responsibility to say "You can get through this." Damn that sucks 2
RDawg Posted February 12, 2014 Posted February 12, 2014 Sorry to hear that man. No need for details, you obviously just picked the wrong one again. Rinse and repeat. Live and learn. 1
Author cavalier99 Posted February 12, 2014 Author Posted February 12, 2014 Sorry to hear that man. No need for details, you obviously just picked the wrong one again. Rinse and repeat. Live and learn. Yup no details needed. If it is over it is over. Ill know for sure in the next couple days. She migh cave. So ill hold off a few days before blocking. It was over the phone. Ill try for a meet up to discuss. After that if it isnt 100 percent clarified. Im out. I will kill ALL hope and delete her out of existence. Cav.
Author cavalier99 Posted February 12, 2014 Author Posted February 12, 2014 Well Cav you know what to do, no biggie . Well. Im not really happy about it. But your right. No biggie in the big scheme.
Lifegoezon Posted February 12, 2014 Posted February 12, 2014 Guess it is back to the drill. Ill give her a couple days to see if she comes around. She is a hot blooded latina and there might be some hope. Might just be mad at something i did. Seems sorta like an over reaction. Anyway. Then block and pure NC and erase her out of existence. I wont beg and plead. Rock on !!!!!!! Cav How refreshing to see such positivity in a post about being dumped. Nice one! Proves we CAN learn from these experiences and heal more quickly next time. 2
FailedFirstLove Posted February 12, 2014 Posted February 12, 2014 Guess it is back to the drill. Ill give her a couple days to see if she comes around. She is a hot blooded latina and there might be some hope. Might just be mad at something i did. Seems sorta like an over reaction. Anyway. Then block and pure NC and erase her out of existence. I wont beg and plead. Rock on !!!!!!! Cav Welcome back again... So glad you learnt the first time... Now why couldn't i? 1
Haydn Posted February 12, 2014 Posted February 12, 2014 Sorry mate. In time let us know what happened. We will all be able to learn from it i suspect. Take care.
Author cavalier99 Posted February 12, 2014 Author Posted February 12, 2014 Wow that sucks!!! I saw the title and saw Cav as the author. Good god man...when good people like yourself get hit, I believe in relationships less. Sorry to hear that man. As one of the first people to ever help me (along with Simon and others) I feel its my responsibility to say "You can get through this." Damn that sucks Thanks bro. SOO SOOO glad your still around Yea i know ill get thru it. Im not feeling to devastated which is confusing me. Maybe denial or false hope she'll come around in the next few days. Anyway it was about a 10 month RS. A lot less than the prior 8 year RS. I kept a much more even keel with this RS. She was definitly high maintenance and could flip on the turn of the dime with some things. So i learned to be very calm and pacient with her and myself. I guess this was a good learning experience. Her loss!
Minneloa Posted February 12, 2014 Posted February 12, 2014 Sorry to hear this. Sending good thoughts! M. 1
ConfusedHumanBeing Posted February 12, 2014 Posted February 12, 2014 Thanks bro. SOO SOOO glad your still around Yea i know ill get thru it. Im not feeling to devastated which is confusing me. Maybe denial or false hope she'll come around in the next few days. Anyway it was about a 10 month RS. A lot less than the prior 8 year RS. I kept a much more even keel with this RS. She was definitly high maintenance and could flip on the turn of the dime with some things. So i learned to be very calm and pacient with her and myself. I guess this was a good learning experience. Her loss! Very nice demeanor man. I feel like this is how I will be next time this happens to me because I'm sure it will at some point. If you dont mind me asking, what happened? How did it come to this? Just curious really and feel free to tell me to shut up haha. I guess for your sake, I hope its a temporary thing and she snaps out of it.
Never Again Posted February 12, 2014 Posted February 12, 2014 I'll echo the chorus on this one: After seeing a lot of your posts here, I'm sorry to hear this...but it's good to see the kind of emotional fortitude that previous experiences can bring, and I'm glad to see that you're not letting it get you down (at least not yet). It took a good couple of days for my last BU to hit me, and it hit way harder than I expected. I hope you fare better! 1
bubbaganoosh Posted February 12, 2014 Posted February 12, 2014 Thanks bro. SOO SOOO glad your still around Yea i know ill get thru it. Im not feeling to devastated which is confusing me. Maybe denial or false hope she'll come around in the next few days. Anyway it was about a 10 month RS. A lot less than the prior 8 year RS. I kept a much more even keel with this RS. She was definitly high maintenance and could flip on the turn of the dime with some things. So i learned to be very calm and pacient with her and myself. I guess this was a good learning experience. Her loss! High maintenance means trouble. Too many times it's like "my way or the highway." I'll take the highway.
johnson_j Posted February 12, 2014 Posted February 12, 2014 Know how you feel bro, just got the ol' heave-ho from another hot-heated, high-maintenance and proud of it (but self-proclaimed drama free) Latina after months of great times. We had one of the dumbest disagreements I've ever been part of which became an excuse for her to lay blame for HER personal issues on me. In retrospect, I wish I had immediately told her to bug off and not give her the satisfaction of feeling she is in the right. Oh well, she'll regret it soon enough. Anyways hope it goes well - there are more out there. 1
BlessYourCottonSocks Posted February 12, 2014 Posted February 12, 2014 :-( If she can't realize a good man when she has one, she doesn't deserve you anyways. Hang in there, you have a great support group here. <3 1
Author cavalier99 Posted February 12, 2014 Author Posted February 12, 2014 She called me like 5 times today and called my friend. I didnt pick up.She left 2 messages. 1 was a song, another was her saying maybe she over reacted yesterday by telling me never to contact her again and that she will not be callihg me. Not sure how i feel about all this. I dont like being broke up with. I feel my heart hardening. I think i need to get together with her to see if we can wrok this out. Confused. Cav
Author cavalier99 Posted February 12, 2014 Author Posted February 12, 2014 Rock on!! Love ya Sciencegal! How are you. Cav
Author cavalier99 Posted February 12, 2014 Author Posted February 12, 2014 Yo, Cav, Dude. ...... You know....... Haha. Thanks Taramaiden!! Glad i could pull you out of the wood works. Miss ya! Cav
johnson_j Posted February 12, 2014 Posted February 12, 2014 At this point brother don't contact her until Saturday. Who knows, she might have realized that she'll be alone Friday and you're "available". Latina women are "different". I'm currently dating one who broke my heart 3 years ago after a quick 1 year whirlwind romance but has been waiting for me to make the move since then. As you said "once bitten twice shy" 1
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