downriver Posted February 12, 2014 Posted February 12, 2014 Hello, Long post so cutting to the chase, I met this girl in my dorm building during the Fall in college. During the end of the quarter, she made moves on me. I immediately took interest. Throughout the holiday break, we didn't communicate much through texting or phone calls, but we communicated through a mobile social app almost everyday. When the new quarter began, things died down until I made a move on her. We ended up hanging out almost everyday, but most of the time, it wasn't one on one. I asked her to go on a date with me, but she said she was still getting over a past relationship. We still continued to be physically intimate. I understand now that she's emotionally unavailable, and the physical intimacy has slowed down. We still hang out on a daily basis because she's part of my social circle. The thing that's bothering me is that, I want to get to know her more, but she doesn't seem like she wants to get attached to me. Her communication with our other friend is much closer compared to our friendship. It upsets me because I know we were closer before, not just physically. I know she is interested in me, but it's hard to stay her friend when I have these feelings for her. It's all one-sided. It's gotten to a point where I think it would be a bad idea for myself to stay around my dorm room because my friends and I have been spending time with her almost everyday. It's gotten comfortable, and if I decide to put space between her and I, everyone will notice. I know she will definitely notice, because she's called me out on my strange behavior (ie. short answered texts, leaving all of a sudden when we're with others). I'm not sure how I should handle this. Some advice would help a lot! -dr
amaysngrace Posted February 12, 2014 Posted February 12, 2014 See other girls. She's stringing you along in a pick-me-up-when-I'm-blue kinda way. That's her sole purpose for maintaining a relationship with you. Think more of yourself than that and don't allow yourself to be manipulated by her anymore. Unless you use her in the very same way then I say enjoy your young bodies....
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