kellkell Posted February 12, 2014 Posted February 12, 2014 Boyfriend and i have hit the year mark. But from that point on wards all it has been from him is : *mood swings *ignoring me then saying 'its cause i needed it' *accuses me of 'starting' non stop. *accuses me of being a slag with any normal contact with men. *constantly tells me his unwanted opinion on my life choices. *has a 'tit for tat' attitude. If i do something that may hurt his feelings by accident,he'll go out of his way to do twice as bad on purpose. Whats the signs,from your experiences and just in general? It sad because his not the man i fell for anymore and i feel i have to leave. He abuses the fact that i haven't left him yet and laughs about it..
Poppyolive Posted February 12, 2014 Posted February 12, 2014 What an ass. One year mark...how did you stay so long? This is really not healthy, he is intimidating, bullying you & finds it funny. Its not inky controlling but abusive. Would you treat someone you love like this? Your best friend? Your family? No....I didn't think so. Run for the hills, 1
amaysngrace Posted February 12, 2014 Posted February 12, 2014 He sounds like a jackass. Why are you with him again? 1
Author kellkell Posted February 12, 2014 Author Posted February 12, 2014 The abuse/controlling has only just started now weve got to a year! Before it was all lovely..thats what so crap..
amaysngrace Posted February 12, 2014 Posted February 12, 2014 The abuse/controlling has only just started now weve got to a year! Before it was all lovely..thats what so crap.. In every abusive relationship there is a honeymoon period. Most people hang in there in hopes of it returning. Unfortunately it usually returns right after they've abused the living crap out of you... 2
Tayken Posted February 12, 2014 Posted February 12, 2014 You might want to explain what "slag" means to our cousins across the pond For my now fellow North Americans, slag means an easy woman to put it lightly This sounds like poppy love to me, and as others have asked...why are you still with him again? Obviously there isn't anything special about him from what you've described
Silly_Girl Posted February 12, 2014 Posted February 12, 2014 The abuse/controlling has only just started now weve got to a year! Before it was all lovely..thats what so crap.. So if you hang on in there, and compromise, and work at it, one day it could be as lovely as it was and you'll be happy again. Please leave. Unless there is something that has medically impacted his moods or an isolated factor you can attribute to this, there is absolutely no going back and you will regret every month/day/week you stayed and invested in something so wrong for you. 1
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