stingray115 Posted February 12, 2014 Posted February 12, 2014 We dated for 6 months and we got along amazingly minus the fact the ex was in the picture.. They have been off and on for 4 years. And she left me for him they broke up like always. We started talking again, she felt horrible for what she did and said she was so lucky to meet me. Things we're going great until i found out she went back to him again.. She tried to hide that she was dating him and wanted me to stay..I told her how much i loved her and wanted it to work. She ignored me and that was painful to watch. I prob was a little pushy and begging cause i wanted to talk and i was tired of my feelings being ignored and one day she just said "i told you to leave me alone, goodbye" (this is a lie because she never said that) she also said she never had feelings for me which i know isn't true. Idk why she cant be mature about it. Anyways i snapped and vented and let out my frustration that she put me through and she just wanted to forget me i guess. She acts like her and her ex never broke up and that we never existed. She says things like "i should have never left him" two days after they got into another fight. I dont know how easy it is for her to forget me but in the end i was the mature one and just said im sorry i was pushy and said her bf was lucky to have her and haven't talked to her since. Its been a few weeks of NC im trying to move on cause i deserve better but i hate that i miss her and i hate that i still love her, when she treated me so bad. I was so kind to her and tried so hard to make her happy.
SCJACK Posted February 12, 2014 Posted February 12, 2014 Its been a few weeks of NC im trying to move on cause i deserve better but i hate that i miss her and i hate that i still love her, when she treated me so bad. I was so kind to her and tried so hard to make her happy. I know what you mean. I'm in the same boat right now.
Author stingray115 Posted February 12, 2014 Author Posted February 12, 2014 It just bugs me that she went back to her ex AGAIN if it didn't work the first 4 times what makes them think it will work again? but it's a shame i wont give her another chance unless she really means to make things right. I hate that i miss her and i hate that i let it get to me. I hope it works out for you tho man, if you need anything or want to vent im here.
notthathard Posted February 12, 2014 Posted February 12, 2014 She's using you as something to fall back on to keep her from feeling lonely when she has no one. I wouldn't even bother trying to make her work for another chance. She can promise the world to you and just leave you again. Just like a cheater, once they have done it once, they have the ability to do it again as they know what to expect. Don't let these types of people walk all over you, you're worth more. Go out and find a woman that will treat well where you both deserve each other. 2
SCJACK Posted February 12, 2014 Posted February 12, 2014 It just bugs me that she went back to her ex AGAIN if it didn't work the first 4 times what makes them think it will work again? but it's a shame i wont give her another chance unless she really means to make things right. I hate that i miss her and i hate that i let it get to me. I hope it works out for you tho man, if you need anything or want to vent im here. It definitely won't work again. After about two tries it really won't ever work out. It's getting to me too bro... but it's natural to feel that way.. I wish we didn't have these feelings.. but they are still here. We deserve better and in the end we will come up on top. Thanks! Same to you. I hope everything works out for you too, and more!
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