g_unit_code Posted January 18, 2005 Posted January 18, 2005 For about a year and my half, I gave my life to one girl. One girl who changed me totally. Let me break this down for ya, I used to treat girls like crap and would use them etc. Me and the girl were friends before we ever started dating and developed a strong friendship. This girl though changed everything for me, changed my life for the better, she showed me love. I never ever had a girlfriend till her, we dated for about 11months or so but had been seeing eachother i guess for a couple months prior. I would treat her like gold, i was her best friend and she was my best friend. We didnt fight ever really, it was the 'perfect' relationship. Little did I know that there isn't really ever a perfect relationship out there. So one night she just suddenly didnt feel it anymore, she just didnt have the same feeling. I think the hardest part about all of this was that I realized that I was way more into then she was. The reasoning she's been giving me about us has been pretty lame, and at times has lead me on a bit more. Me and her still talk everyday, either she will call me or ill call her. I've tried not talking to her at all but it hurts too much cause we were best friends prior to all of this....i know she is hurting too, maybe not as bad as me, i would just like to know how im suppose to get through all of this. there isnt an hour of my day that i dont think about me trying to get back with her. she always says it cant happen again, i just want to be able to realize it cant happen but i dont know how to, like i wish i could hate her but i cant, i love her way to much, ive begged her to try things again....what can i do to get over her, ive tried a tonne of things its been two months now.... please somebody help.
Starnette83 Posted January 18, 2005 Posted January 18, 2005 Hey it sounds like we are both going through the same thing, i also am trying to figure out a way to get over my love, I love him so much and i think of him constantly, ive been with him 4 years, through it all i was always there for him and i treated him really good, i even put his needs before mine..anyways ive realized that im more in love then he is with me and that he never wants to talk about marriage because he doesnt feel the same way... My problem is that im still with him and am having a hard time letting go even when he screws up, i know he lies and i know he doesnt love me as much as i do YET i cant seem to get to my head that hes not the one for me and to move on, because my heart belongs to him and i honestly dont see myself with anyone BUT HIM, i hate this way of thinking, and i just dont want to keep going on this way anymore.... I dont know if there is any secret to get over someone or get someoen eback, i think its all a process we need to face,a s for me ive been facing this way to long and im stuck, sometimes i cant even cry and soemtimes im crying likea baby, UGH LOVE SUCKS!!!!!!!!!! why cant we just find someoene that feels mutual with us!! Jsut give it time, keep busy, pray and try to gain some confidence tahts what im doing but i dont expect to change over night...it takes time a long time, but i dont think its impossible
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