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Miss Cuddles!!!! Part 2

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One of my favorite things in relationships is cuddling.

 

I really, really miss it.

 

It looks like I am going to be single for awhile at least.

 

And all I want in the world when it is cold and nasty and snowy and icy...

 

is someone who I love and trust to cuddle with! I mean, I have a close friend that I cuddle with sometimes when he comes to visit, but it is just not the same at all. It helps, but it is not the real deal.

 

I want the real deal.

 

I miss the real deal.

 

I mean, I could go to my OkC account and get any number of men years younger than me (I don't get that) but that is just not what I want. They are little babies. They don't know it. But they are cute little puppy babies. I want a man.

 

And I especially will be reminded on Friday, (of course) of how much I bloody just miss cuddles!

 

:(

 

I miss cuddles. Anybody else in the tribe of really jonesing for some cuddling?

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JDPT Established Member

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What's going on Friday? Lol

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Keenly Established Member

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Yeah... I miss it a lot too.

 

 

Haven't cuddled since the last time I had sex. 459 days ago.

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Itspointless Established Member

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I miss it too. Also missed it a really long time before her and now again. It immedeately came to my realization when she broke, isn't that sad :)

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One of my pet names for my ex was Shnugglebutt. We used to love spooning in winter with the rain pelting down.

 

Don't worry, chances are we will all be cuddling with someone special again in the not too distant future.

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Yeah I miss it too. I used to love to cuddle with my ex. That was 7 months ago. I'm still not over her and I can't picture cuddling anyone else. I guess I won't till I'm over her.

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Zahara Established Member

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Yeah... I miss it a lot too.

 

 

Haven't cuddled since the last time I had sex. 459 days ago.

 

A man that loves to cuddle. They exist!

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I miss the cuddles as well. Those late night cuddles, nothing more. Just laying in his arms , feeling content and safe and in love.

 

God. I miss it.

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I always have dreams of us cuddling, and it seems so real, when I wake up it feels like he's there, but then I turn around and he's not. Hasn't been for 6 months.

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I miss it too. BIG TIME. Feels like you're melting into a warm gooey goodness when you're wrapped around each other. (SIGH)

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tlegend Established Member

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Ditto.

 

One of my favorite things to do was cuddle. I remember I used to feel so comfortable I fell asleep so many times while holding her. She found it offensive.

 

='(

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Ditto.

 

One of my favorite things to do was cuddle. I remember I used to feel so comfortable I fell asleep so many times while holding her. She found it offensive.

 

='(

 

OMG, seriously? I would find that so incredibly adorable! I want a man who does that! :-)

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Keenly Established Member

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Apparently its far more common than women realize. Men like to cuddle too. We just want to do it when we feel like it.

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Zahara Established Member

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Ditto.

 

One of my favorite things to do was cuddle. I remember I used to feel so comfortable I fell asleep so many times while holding her. She found it offensive.

 

='(

 

Oh my. You're a prize. Don't ever change!

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Apparently its far more common than women realize. Men like to cuddle too. We just want to do it when we feel like it.

Definitely. Cuddling, feeling her warm body against me, stroking her hair, sometimes gently stroking her face, listening to her slow breathing, lying still together in bed or on the couch with her head in your lap. It equals sex for me, sometimes it is better :p There is so much trust and warmth in it, especially when the other falls asleep. I definitely miss it :confused:

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Ditto.

 

One of my favorite things to do was cuddle. I remember I used to feel so comfortable I fell asleep so many times while holding her. She found it offensive.

 

='(

 

I used to fall asleep on my ex boyfriend all the time. I detest sleeping on couches, but if I fell asleep on him while watching a movie on the couch, it was always a good sleep.

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Definitely. Cuddling, feeling her warm body against me, stroking her hair, sometimes gently stroking her face, listening to her slow breathing, lying still together in bed or on the couch with her head in your lap. It equals sex for me, sometimes it is better :p There is so much trust and warmth in it, especially when the other falls asleep. I definitely miss it :confused:

 

Yeah if I could only pick all the sex I want or all the cuddling I want, I'd probably pick cuddling .

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I know I'm gonna sound crazy, but I'm not big on cuddling! Makes me feel suffocated haha.

 

I'm more happy to be laying near/next to him, being very close, maybe touching a little bit, but NOT cuddled.

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In retrospect, the ex and I never cuddled. I wanted it at times but I'm not certain the ex ever experienced it due to her background.

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Cuddling in bed was the best. She would sleep on my left...if I faced left, I would spoon her. She would lay her head on my left arm as I would squeeze her with my right.

 

If I laid on my right side, she would spoon me and drape her left leg over my hips...

 

Miss cuddles...

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Keenly Established Member

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You forgot the hours, seconds and millisecond.

 

Mentally cataloging things is something my brain just sort of does. I can't help it X_x

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Oh my. You're a prize. Don't ever change!

 

Those words of encouragement brightened my day. Thank you :D

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This has to be one of the most sweet posts on here, and I can't believe how much I miss it all too. Keenly is absolutely right; as a guy, I loved holding my her in my arms late into the night. On days we did make love, we would follow with conversation until 2 in the morning or until one of us fell asleep, days we were too tired, we'd put on a movie and drift asleep together, usually with her head on my chest. I miss it...a lot. I'm 20 and I sill live at home so we would sleep in the basement on a pull out bed from my couch. I found one of her hairs on one of the sheets early into the BU and I just broke down. I miss having my face tickled by her hair, silly as it is. I miss rolling over in the morning to kiss her awake....I miss my soft human body pillow! :(

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This has to be one of the most sweet posts on here, and I can't believe how much I miss it all too. Keenly is absolutely right; as a guy, I loved holding my her in my arms late into the night. On days we did make love, we would follow with conversation until 2 in the morning or until one of us fell asleep, days we were too tired, we'd put on a movie and drift asleep together, usually with her head on my chest. I miss it...a lot. I'm 20 and I sill live at home so we would sleep in the basement on a pull out bed from my couch. I found one of her hairs on one of the sheets early into the BU and I just broke down. I miss having my face tickled by her hair, silly as it is. I miss rolling over in the morning to kiss her awake....I miss my soft human body pillow! :(

 

Well, if my OP is one of the sweetest posts on here, I think this, your post, and TLegend's are a direct tie for the absolute sweetest posts on here.

 

I'm sorry for your pain!

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I used to have a thing where I would go and lay on the bed and stretch out with a cheeky smile waiting for my ex to jump on me for snuggles. It was a nice stretch and cuddles ritual. Sometimes we'd end up falling to sleep it was so comfy.

 

I miss making a moustache on my face with her long hair.

 

I can't sleep on a bed any more because it just reminds me and I couldn't sleep at night. So now I sleep on the floor or a yoga mat to help disconnect from all those snuggly nights in bed. Sort of like NC for cuddling.

 

I'm still glad I got to experience it in my life but I wouldn't ever except her to reject me like she did. Sometimes I wish I never met her.

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