deathandtaxes Posted February 11, 2014 Posted February 11, 2014 Three weeks. That's how long it took to go from zero to stratospheric back down to zero. Why did you have to be such a smart, funny, and sexy woman? Why did you have to be impossible to communicate with? Sure we could talk about serious things, but then something would get in the way, feelings would get hurt, and then it just sucked. I could only put up with it for so long. And I realized that sticking around won't make it any better. It will not improve. It's us. It's how we are. The conversations devolved. Every. Damn. Time. I've dumped and been dumped. This was me doing the dumping. It was yesterday. It wasn't the first time I thought about ending things. I almost didn't go on a third date with this lady because of some red flags. I should have paid more attention and saved myself some grief and heartache. It wasn't easy. I don't feel good about it. But I couldn't stick around. The same things would just keep happening. They didn't stop happening.
witmadskilllz Posted February 12, 2014 Posted February 12, 2014 so you would rather find someone better than to work it out i'm assuming. but even if you do find someone whose 'better', everyone relationship still requires if not, the same amount of effort.
Author deathandtaxes Posted February 12, 2014 Author Posted February 12, 2014 I wanted this to work. I tried working it out. I think there were some fundamental incompatibilities in how we communicated with each other. And we talked about those. And i realized that it wasn't something that could be fixed. There were red flags within the first week. And the next weekend. It was so much that i was not looking forward to seeing her at all. If i feel this way at three weeks, how would i feel at three months? 2
Author deathandtaxes Posted February 12, 2014 Author Posted February 12, 2014 Just admit it...sex was no good... Haha! No. No. The sex was quite good.
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