peruano99 Posted February 11, 2014 Posted February 11, 2014 Okay so I met this cute girl in one of my college classes. We had good chemistry, clicked it off instantly, asked her out, and we kissed and did other things but no sex. I thought everything was doing great, until I find out she has a boyfriend. I just stayed away from her without giving her any reason, and now she tries to strike a conversation and stares at me every time I have classes with her. What can I do? I really liked this girl, but this is just confusing.
soccerrprp Posted February 11, 2014 Posted February 11, 2014 Okay so I met this cute girl in one of my college classes. We had good chemistry, clicked it off instantly, asked her out, and we kissed and did other things but no sex. I thought everything was doing great, until I find out she has a boyfriend. I just stayed away from her without giving her any reason, and now she tries to strike a conversation and stares at me every time I have classes with her. What can I do? I really liked this girl, but this is just confusing. She's a cheater and someone for you to steer clear of. She'll bring trouble. Just look elsewhere.
mammasita Posted February 11, 2014 Posted February 11, 2014 What's confusing? Do you want to be with a cheater or want a crazy boyfriend stalking you? No? Ok, then. 1
d0nnivain Posted February 11, 2014 Posted February 11, 2014 How do you know she has a BF? If somebody other than her (or him) told you she has a BF they may be mistaken. Talk to her. Tell her that you enjoyed spending time with her but you're backing off because you understand she has a BF. If she doesn't have a BF, go for it. If she does, at least she knows why you did the right thing by pulling away.
Author peruano99 Posted February 11, 2014 Author Posted February 11, 2014 How do you know she has a BF? If somebody other than her (or him) told you she has a BF they may be mistaken. Talk to her. Tell her that you enjoyed spending time with her but you're backing off because you understand she has a BF. If she doesn't have a BF, go for it. If she does, at least she knows why you did the right thing by pulling away. One of my friends is friends with her on FB and it says she is in a relationship with a guy since 2009.
d0nnivain Posted February 12, 2014 Posted February 12, 2014 One of my friends is friends with her on FB and it says she is in a relationship with a guy since 2009. Don't believe every thing you read on FB. Talk to her. If he has a BF, back off. 1
tlegend Posted February 12, 2014 Posted February 12, 2014 Don't believe every thing you read on FB. Talk to her. If he has a BF, back off. I'm sorry but if she very obviously updates facebook and also has it on there that she is in a relationship....well, put it this way. If it looks like a duck and quacks like a duck....it's a ****ing duck. I just went through someone who tried to use the privacy settings on facebook to pull the wool over my eyes and only display the relationship to certain people so she could appear single to everyone else. Yes, some people can be like that.
d0nnivain Posted February 12, 2014 Posted February 12, 2014 I'm sorry but if she very obviously updates facebook and also has it on there that she is in a relationship....well, put it this way. If it looks like a duck and quacks like a duck....it's a ****ing duck. I just went through someone who tried to use the privacy settings on facebook to pull the wool over my eyes and only display the relationship to certain people so she could appear single to everyone else. Yes, some people can be like that. You're right but all I'm saying is talk to the woman. Get the info from the horse's mouth. When did it become so bad to have a conversation with another person? 1
Author peruano99 Posted February 12, 2014 Author Posted February 12, 2014 I will talk to her this coming Thursday. I don't know why nowadays I seem to have luck with women in relationships.
MidwestUSA Posted February 12, 2014 Posted February 12, 2014 Don't believe every thing you read on FB. Talk to her. If he has a BF, back off. The way Facebook is being used to hook up and/or stalk people nowadays (like I did with my husband, LOL) she may have put that up there to discourage guys. Your best bet is to ask her.
Zahara Posted February 12, 2014 Posted February 12, 2014 One of my friends is friends with her on FB and it says she is in a relationship with a guy since 2009. If she knows you both have a mutual friends and the story can get back to you, I'm not sure why she would blatantly cheat. Talk to her.
Chi townD Posted February 12, 2014 Posted February 12, 2014 Dude, if she'll cheat with you, then she'll have no problem cheating on you.
JDPT Posted February 13, 2014 Posted February 13, 2014 This shouldn't be difficult at all to walk away from.
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