Maxxx Posted February 11, 2014 Posted February 11, 2014 First of all hi everyone I have not been here in years...... That brings me to my question I would like some opinions....... I have been married to my wife 3 going on 4 years our sex lives fell off pretty much after the first year our sexual interaction got have gotten further and further apart. Some of that was my fault I had changed jobs working much harder then I had been and under allot more stress. So therefore didn't feel much like having sex..... To shorten things up a bit... I'd say for the last 6 months up until this last weekend we have had sex maybe one other time. It was Saturday night and my wife said nothing about our encounter all day Sunday Then she sent me a message Monday at work stating that she wanted more of what she got Saturday night............. Now this all comes on the back side of a conversation I brought up a few weeks ago that I felt like we were drifting apart... And I asked her if anything was wrong..... She assured me nothing was wrong...... But now sex twice in one week in less then 3 days??? Is she trying to prove something to me?? I don't know maybe I am reading to much into it... I always think the worst...
Grumpybutfun Posted February 11, 2014 Posted February 11, 2014 First of all hi everyone I have not been here in years...... That brings me to my question I would like some opinions....... I have been married to my wife 3 going on 4 years our sex lives fell off pretty much after the first year our sexual interaction got have gotten further and further apart. Some of that was my fault I had changed jobs working much harder then I had been and under allot more stress. So therefore didn't feel much like having sex..... To shorten things up a bit... I'd say for the last 6 months up until this last weekend we have had sex maybe one other time. It was Saturday night and my wife said nothing about our encounter all day Sunday Then she sent me a message Monday at work stating that she wanted more of what she got Saturday night............. Now this all comes on the back side of a conversation I brought up a few weeks ago that I felt like we were drifting apart... And I asked her if anything was wrong..... She assured me nothing was wrong...... But now sex twice in one week in less then 3 days??? Is she trying to prove something to me?? I don't know maybe I am reading to much into it... I always think the worst... I think you are reading the exact amount into this...she knows you see that the two of you are drifting apart and taking each other for granted and she knows that if you don't do something, you could lose your marriage. She probably thought of what you said and realized it after the conversation. ...hey, we are drifting apart. She made the first move of initiating sex, so now what can you do next to show her how you feel and that you loves and desire her? You two need to recapture what made you two love and desire each other before. The neglect can be reversed at this point, so make the effort to get some magic and passion back into it before it is stale and you both are wondering what you are doing in it. Sex is always a good gauge to see if your marriage is healthy. If you aren't having it, your marriage needs some work. Good luck, G
Author Maxxx Posted February 11, 2014 Author Posted February 11, 2014 I think you are reading the exact amount into this...she knows you see that the two of you are drifting apart and taking each other for granted and she knows that if you don't do something, you could lose your marriage. She probably thought of what you said and realized it after the conversation. ...hey, we are drifting apart. She made the first move of initiating sex, so now what can you do next to show her how you feel and that you loves and desire her? You two need to recapture what made you two love and desire each other before. The neglect can be reversed at this point, so make the effort to get some magic and passion back into it before it is stale and you both are wondering what you are doing in it. Sex is always a good gauge to see if your marriage is healthy. If you aren't having it, your marriage needs some work. Good luck, G Thanks for the reply I am going to try and rekindle what we had....
TiredFamilyGuy Posted February 14, 2014 Posted February 14, 2014 (edited) What grumpybutfun said, I second. Edited February 14, 2014 by TiredFamilyGuy
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