catherine Posted January 17, 2005 Posted January 17, 2005 i'm so unhappy. my ex, who i truely love, has a girlfriend. it isn't that new. we broke up 5 months ago, after almost 3 years together. he got with her 2 months ago. i was doing ok (it was hard but we were friends), then i saw him one night and it was so nice and we slept together. i made me think he would leave her for me but now he says he loves her and wants to be with her. he says he can't understand how he ever loved me what did i do wrong? why would he say this he said he loved me and noone knew him as well as me that night? he said he didn't know what to do but now he says he has no doubt that he wants to be with her. our relationship was so intense, we spent all our time together, i loved him so much and it has all come back to me. i have to see them together we are all at uni. my friends are their friends too. hence she found out about us but has forgiven him and they will live happily ever after. i have to pretend that it is ok, that i'm glad they've worked it out, i feel sorry for her but i so wanted her to dump him. i want him to wake up tomorrow and realise he wants me like he used to. there is nothing i can do to make him love me and it hurts and it won't go away. i guess it is better to have loved and lost than never loved at all, but i feel like i have lost so much. how do i go on
matt10020 Posted January 18, 2005 Posted January 18, 2005 This guy is not worth it! I know u said that your friends with him but i think u need to distance your self from him as much as u can. It will hurt like hell and you'll still want to see him, but seeing him with his girlfriend will hurt a lot more. I fell in love with a girl on my uni course who was in my friendship group and things went very wrong!!! She cheated on her boyfriend with me and at one point it was almost like we were going out. I hoped so much that they would split up and we could be together but they didn't. Things only went sour a few days ago and it still hurts like mad but i'm doing my best not to call, txt and i try and see her as little as i can. At the moment it feels like the pain will never stop but just take one day at a time i'm sure things will get better guess it is better to have loved and lost than never loved at all Ah yes that old phase, my mates have used that many times in the last few days on me!!! The sun will rise and the sun will set and with each new day the pain will get easier to deal with. Although u have lost much u still have the rest of your life to lead and hey, life is full of surprises!
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