Unbalanced Posted February 11, 2014 Posted February 11, 2014 I got a hold of my girlfriends phone on Friday night and I noticed she had a missed call from her ex the night before. Then I looked at her text messages and saw that she sent him a message where she acknowledged that he called and asked him what was going on.. She was with this guy for 3 years and she broke up with him about 5 months ago. Me and her have now been dating for a little over 2 months... Should I be concerned??
verhrzn Posted February 11, 2014 Posted February 11, 2014 Not right away, no. It's perfectly natural for her to text him back to ask why he'd called. It also sounds like the texts don't go back any further, so it's the first time she's talked to him in a while. If they broke up amicably, there's really not a lot of reason they shouldn't be able to communicate once in a while. The important thing is, you need to trust your girlfriend. If she hasn't given you any reason to doubt her, then don't.
LEEVIT2F8 Posted February 11, 2014 Posted February 11, 2014 You should be concerned that your so insecure your stalking her phone records. Kinda creepy and not a good look at all. But no its not a problem until YOU make it one. Never mention anything about it to her at all. If your doing what your supposed to be doing she isnt going back. 1
pickflicker Posted February 11, 2014 Posted February 11, 2014 I got a hold of my girlfriends phone on Friday night and I noticed she had a missed call from her ex the night before. Then I looked at her text messages and saw that she sent him a message where she acknowledged that he called and asked him what was going on.. She was with this guy for 3 years and she broke up with him about 5 months ago. Me and her have now been dating for a little over 2 months... Should I be concerned?? It's been two months. That's hardly a long relationship. And if I caught you doing this behaviour 2 months in, I'd dump you. Snooping is a no-no. 1
Author Unbalanced Posted February 11, 2014 Author Posted February 11, 2014 "snooping is a no-no". Texting your ex is a no-no. I don't care how or why they broke up
pickflicker Posted February 11, 2014 Posted February 11, 2014 "snooping is a no-no". Texting your ex is a no-no. I don't care how or why they broke up Since when? Some people are able to remain platonic friends with their ex. Some people function perfectly well doing that. There's no justification for invading her privacy at any stage, but particularly, after only dating them for 2 months. There's little justification for your behaviour. As I said, a dumpable offense.
Author Unbalanced Posted February 11, 2014 Author Posted February 11, 2014 (edited) Do the Harlem Shake Edited February 11, 2014 by Unbalanced
pickflicker Posted February 11, 2014 Posted February 11, 2014 Do the Harlem Shake Hmm. ok. Well, good luck with your conundrum there.
aussietigerwolf Posted February 11, 2014 Posted February 11, 2014 "snooping is a no-no". Texting your ex is a no-no. I don't care how or why they broke up if im going to be dumped for sending a why have you rung me text then im better off without that guy too...
ExpatInItaly Posted February 11, 2014 Posted February 11, 2014 I would say that her text back to him is innocent and not cause for concern at this point. However, if I were her and found out that you'd snooped through my phone over something like that, you'd be gone, OP. You don't trust her and I wouldn't trust you after that either. Next. 1
Eivuwan Posted February 11, 2014 Posted February 11, 2014 The OP's name is "unbalanced." OP, maybe you should actually listen to the people here since even you don't see yourself as a rational person. 2
der Posted February 11, 2014 Posted February 11, 2014 "snooping is a no-no". Texting your ex is a no-no. I don't care how or why they broke up You just don't get it.
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