tinroof Posted February 11, 2014 Posted February 11, 2014 A year ago my ex cheated on me after he promised to buy me a ring and continually filled my head with empty promises. He rushed the relationship and seemed head over heals. Despite the details, after I found out about his unfaithfulness and deceit I cut him out of my life completely. He tried to stay in contact and I shut him out and told him never to speak to me again. One year later, this week, I received a letter. Also, unsure of how he was able to access my address in the first place. The letter was quite long and described how very very sorry he was for everything and how I am such a great person and "the perfect girl." He said the best times of his life were with me and that he hates that its over and wishes he could change the past. He also informed me that he is not looking for a second chance and doesn't even expect me to acknowledge him, he just needs me to know that he has changed and that I am the best person he has ever known. I was completely taken aback by this behavior, especially since, last I knew, he was in a relationship and living with the girl. I haven't been keeping tabs, but pretty sure this is still the situation. I still don't trust the man and wont roll over and be his friend after an email, especially when he is still with someone and telling me I'm the greatest girl ever. That just shows me that he is a hypocritical jerk and just doing the same thing to her that he did to me. I am just confused as to why he felt the need to write this letter a year later.
d0nnivain Posted February 11, 2014 Posted February 11, 2014 It means nothing. Ignore it & him. If he's with someone else & e-mailing you, he hasn't changed a bit. I'd call him a dog, but that would be an insult to dogs. 1
pickflicker Posted February 11, 2014 Posted February 11, 2014 Fellow Loveshack participants, please take note of tinroof's post. If you disappear after being dumped, and you ex wants to contact you, they'll find a way. Now, to the OP: he appears to be assuaging his guilt. There is no need for you to offer anything to him, and since he is not asking for a second chance, I would bin the letter and continue to live your life. Good luck. 1
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