Beachlife88 Posted February 11, 2014 Posted February 11, 2014 Been seeing a guy 2 months. We go out to eat, movies, for drinks or just hang out. I've met his friends, his cousin and his parents. I'm 27 he's 29. We are sleeping together. I see him once or twice a week. (We work polar opposite shifts) him overnights me days. We talk most days but occasionally won't a day or two. I'm not sure. What u think? He's told me he really likes me. We've hung out plenty of times that don't involve sex. I've stayed over and cuddled without sex. I'll admit I'm insanely scared of getting hurt
HappyLove Posted February 11, 2014 Posted February 11, 2014 If you were insanely scared of getting hurt you wouldn't be in a fwb situation.
Author Beachlife88 Posted February 11, 2014 Author Posted February 11, 2014 If you were insanely scared of getting hurt you wouldn't be in a fwb situation. I don't think it's fwb. He refers to use as seeing each other, we do couple things
HappyLove Posted February 11, 2014 Posted February 11, 2014 Oh ok, so you are asking if you are a fwb or gf. I'd say if you don't know then you're probably a fwb. Does he introduce you as his gf?
hasaquestion Posted February 11, 2014 Posted February 11, 2014 Been seeing a guy 2 months. We go out to eat, movies, for drinks or just hang out. I've met his friends, his cousin and his parents. I'm 27 he's 29. We are sleeping together. I see him once or twice a week. (We work polar opposite shifts) him overnights me days. We talk most days but occasionally won't a day or two. I'm not sure. What u think? He's told me he really likes me. We've hung out plenty of times that don't involve sex. I've stayed over and cuddled without sex. I'll admit I'm insanely scared of getting hurt Keep it FWB. Use him for the sex and some cheap cuddling and go home. That's probably the way he sees it too. If he wants to be your BF that's something else though. And if he does... why do you think he's your FWB?
Author Beachlife88 Posted February 11, 2014 Author Posted February 11, 2014 Keep it FWB. Use him for the sex and some cheap cuddling and go home. That's probably the way he sees it too. If he wants to be your BF that's something else though. And if he does... why do you think he's your FWB? He just texted me. I asked him how he sees us. Said an exclusive couple. He said he's seeing no one else and figured that was implied about us 1
MrMeh Posted February 11, 2014 Posted February 11, 2014 If you do not want to be seen as an exclusive couple then I suggest you cut if off, but if you think he is worth a shot then I don't see why not. He was confident of the status of the relationship while you were confused.If anything, work on communicating how you both feel from now on.
Shosh Posted February 11, 2014 Posted February 11, 2014 Nothing in your OP sounded like you are just FWB, but then that is not always clear. I think the only way to know is to have the talk. Good for you to ask him, now you know.
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