new2013 Posted February 11, 2014 Posted February 11, 2014 I met this decent guy i've ever met had three dates and they all have been good except third, sweet holds my hand and gives plenty of cuddles and opens doors for me and offers to pay for mostly everything:eek: so whats my problem? Well.... Lately hes so stressed with family, job, plus hes only not so long got out long term relationship 5 months ago she cheated on him with his mate they were due to get married this year etc, during lunch I thought he looked tired hes doing to much as it is but he told me everything during the date ( yes most girls would walk out after that) but weve been there for each other past few weeks with family problems weve have the same I just wanted to hug him after he started crying and he kept holding my arm tight. Hes been text saying how bad he felt cause it was during the date now I know he isn't ready for anything after that but he said he got all confused hes been text everyday since so hes not avoiding me etc But I got a text today after I said we dont need to rush anything i'm happy with "taken it slow" and us having some fun we deserve it, it makes a change his reply "just hang out and see what happens" This means so many different "terms" to me I don't know if its good or bad is it good he still wants to take things slow for things to develop? he is such an amazing guy with what he does for everyone he isnt a player etc
KatZee Posted February 11, 2014 Posted February 11, 2014 He's emotionally unavailable. Move on. You're not going to get what you're looking for from this guy, as of right now he's damaged goods. Don't think you can "be there" for him or "fix him" or help him move on from his issues. You're going to get strung along for a nice ride if you decide to stay in a romantic sense. Back off and be a friend only if you can handle that. No dates, no hooking up, no emotional crap. He needs to be single, he needs to mourn, grieve, and completely get over his past.
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