FrostBlaze Posted February 10, 2014 Posted February 10, 2014 It's another of those bull**** lines but i don't know how to interpret it, or if to take it seriously. I know it means "not you" but is there anything else to it? I don't ussually get this dropped on me but it happened. "If i had met you before him, i would be loving you right now." Reply from a girl i was interested in, that broke up with her ex like half a year ago, but she isn't over him, i tried something but she still thinks about him to much it seems. Can i get a more literal translation to that line, aaaand, is it worth trying to wait maybe? But i guess not .
d0nnivain Posted February 10, 2014 Posted February 10, 2014 Only she knows exactly what it means but my best translation is that your timing sucks. On some level she's hurting now & doesn't want anything or doesn't want you because you remind her of him. Sorry but for now, you're wasting your time with this girl. As a parting line I'd tell her to call you if she ever wants to get together but then you need to fade away. Don't be mean or anything. Keep the door open but for your own sanity, don't expect her to walk through. Date, . . . do whatever. If she shows up again and you are both free & interested, great otherwise just move on.
BradJacobs Posted February 10, 2014 Posted February 10, 2014 is it worth trying to wait maybe? No. Never put your life on hold for someone that isn't making you a priority (and even then it's suspect advice). She's spared you wasting any energy on her. Take this opportunity to remove yourself from this situation and find someone worthy of your affections.
soccerrprp Posted February 11, 2014 Posted February 11, 2014 Yup, move on. Someone said something very similar to me once. It's her way of saying that she's not ready for a relationship right now (with you or anyone else).
LEEVIT2F8 Posted February 11, 2014 Posted February 11, 2014 Its not a relationship thing. You could hit it and quit it if you wanted though. Just gotta remember your that rebound guy so nothing in it past that. Next meeting arrange in a group with friends. Ice her a bit and flirt with other woman. She will get a touch jealous your not giving her all the attention. When she starts to act out trying to get your attention give her some then pull it back. Keep teasing her this way throughout the night. At the end, make sure you spend a ton of time with her. Make it fun, light, and flirty. Tell her your not sure if she is fun enough to hang with you, and that you think she lost her smile somewhere. She will say something like that she used to be fun blah blah blah. Then be that guy that can help her find it again.
Author FrostBlaze Posted February 11, 2014 Author Posted February 11, 2014 THat's some advice you got there, like you've been through it xD. My take is, she just isn't interested in me or idk..even if she says she does, for some reason i feel that she would jump at someone else if given the opportunity.
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