sly_fly1 Posted February 10, 2014 Posted February 10, 2014 my gf has been ignoring me for 2 days, she hardley texts, ive been calling n blowing up her phone, n i get a one word reply back, i just dont get it, like she dumped me , n then i took her back, n now she just messes with me,i know it probably wont work out, but i just dont understand, we were so close n inlove n now its like me being around is just an annoyance to her or somthing, its super frustrating too because its like im talking to a brick wall n she knows im getting frustrated and she just doesnt care!
mammasita Posted February 10, 2014 Posted February 10, 2014 There's absolutely no reason to ignore someone you're in a relationship with. I think you're next step should be to text her and say "Im done with you" and move on, don't even worry about whether she responds or not. She's immature and not worth your time. 2
pickflicker Posted February 10, 2014 Posted February 10, 2014 Stop calling her. She's being very rude. You've taken her back and she's proven unequal to the task. It's over, delete her number and don't speak to her again. 2
SCJACK Posted February 10, 2014 Posted February 10, 2014 I should have been the one to do this, and do the breaking up first so I could feel like i'm on top... instead I waited and tried to be there for her only for her to break up with me on my birthday.. 1
FailedFirstLove Posted February 10, 2014 Posted February 10, 2014 I never on ignored my bf, we'll ex now.. I cared about him way too much. And talking to him was my happiness,, I couldn't just ignore... ;)something's not right with your gf..... I would ignore someone if I'm disconnecting or don't feel a need to talk to them... But if I love someone..noooooways. Can't ignore
tlegend Posted February 10, 2014 Posted February 10, 2014 I should have been the one to do this, and do the breaking up first so I could feel like i'm on top... instead I waited and tried to be there for her only for her to break up with me on my birthday.. Its ok. I got dumped on Xmas.
Author sly_fly1 Posted February 10, 2014 Author Posted February 10, 2014 yes, i love my gf to death, and it breaks my heart what ever is happening to her, she is just so heartless now, all i want is just our happy relationship back:(
lauri Posted February 10, 2014 Posted February 10, 2014 (edited) I hate to say this to you but she is showing signs of little to no interest level in you. Pretty much her actions means that you are on the way out and she is building up the courage to break it to you. In her mind, she is making it "very clear" its pretty much over. The signs aren't good at all... The more you contact her and reach out to her, the further away you are pushing her away and driving her interest level in you lower. You appear weak / with no self control if you continue to contact her after she is giving you the signs you are on the way out. When a girl loves you / is interested, she will never make your life hard - she would make it easier for you! If I was you, I would end it and stop contacting her. Edited February 10, 2014 by lauri 1
Author sly_fly1 Posted February 10, 2014 Author Posted February 10, 2014 well i talked to her on the phone finally, she said she feels like were falling into the same pattern of me intentionally annoying her by the little things i do. very confusing considering on saterday she wanted to hang out for a bit, but i had plans with a friend, and then she ignored my texts until sunday night when i called her, and then all this morning until now, i hardley even talked to her, could all this be just because i didnt hang out with her on saterday, she never really told me what was up , but she was quiet on the phone.
pickflicker Posted February 10, 2014 Posted February 10, 2014 well i talked to her on the phone finally, she said she feels like were falling into the same pattern of me intentionally annoying her by the little things i do. very confusing considering on saterday she wanted to hang out for a bit, but i had plans with a friend, and then she ignored my texts until sunday night when i called her, and then all this morning until now, i hardley even talked to her, could all this be just because i didnt hang out with her on saterday, she never really told me what was up , but she was quiet on the phone. So are you going to put up with this, or are you going to dump her? 2
TaraMaiden Posted February 10, 2014 Posted February 10, 2014 Drama Queen. Immature, juvenile behaviour. Advise her you're calling the relationship over, and that you are going No Contact. If you want to salvage any pride dignity and self-esteem, you will do this. Otherwise you'll just turn into the proverbial doormat. And trust me, you really don't want to go there.... Read the NC Guide in my signature. You may look like you're the dumper here, but I see that as incorrect. Her behaviour is screaming 'it's over, really!" at a gazillion decibels. you just don't hear it..... 3
lauri Posted February 10, 2014 Posted February 10, 2014 Drama Queen. Immature, juvenile behaviour. Advise her you're calling the relationship over, and that you are going No Contact. If you want to salvage any pride dignity and self-esteem, you will do this. Otherwise you'll just turn into the proverbial doormat. And trust me, you really don't want to go there.... Read the NC Guide in my signature. You may look like you're the dumper here, but I see that as incorrect. Her behaviour is screaming 'it's over, really!" at a gazillion decibels. you just don't hear it..... Exactly. Common man, your gut MUST be telling you that she is giving you all the signals that it is over. If you ever want a chance of things potentially working out in the future with her (maybe 1-2 years down the road, by the sounds of things you are almost at a 0% chance of that happening) you need to end it now. If you stay around, I can promise you she will be so turned off that it will be over forever. 1
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