runaway Posted February 10, 2014 Posted February 10, 2014 25 y.o. professional school student. Went to a law school friend's party at a nightclub and was introduced to his classmate whom I found very attractive. We kinda hit it off instantly. Conversations flowed nicely, and we danced for quite some time. After a while, she french kissed me, so I figured she found me attractive as well. I wanted to exchange numbers, but she claimed her cell had died on her. So, I got her number and "kiss closed" her. My buddy told me she gets hit on all the time, so he told me to approach her in a way that most guys don't. I decided to call her, instead of texting her, the day after I met her. I did, but she didn't pick up. Later that night I texted her, "Hey M, how's it going? called you earlier today but maybe you didn't get the call?" I just left it at that. I texted her pretty late, so I am still waiting for her response. However, I am not really getting my hopes up. I thought this girl was somewhat into me! I can't really think of what I did wrong. Perhaps that is the problem, but I really thought I did everything correctly. What a shame... What COULD have gone wrong? :/
Gaeta Posted February 10, 2014 Posted February 10, 2014 Nothing went wrong, she was just having fun and you did not leave an impression on her strong enough for her to care. I would delete her number if I were you.
HappyLove Posted February 10, 2014 Posted February 10, 2014 What's "kiss closed"? She sounds like someone with a lot of options. Your friend said she gets hit on all the time. She may be just playing a game and waiting a few days to get back to you. For someone who french kisses random men in the club, that she's not even interested in, if she never gets back to you I wouldn't say it's a big loss. 1
ExpatInItaly Posted February 10, 2014 Posted February 10, 2014 What's "kiss closed"? She sounds like someone with a lot of options. Your friend said she gets hit on all the time. She may be just playing a game and waiting a few days to get back to you. For someone who french kisses random men in the club, that she's not even interested in, if she never gets back to you I wouldn't say it's a big loss. 2nd? Never heard this term before...
Ruby Slippers Posted February 10, 2014 Posted February 10, 2014 For someone who french kisses random men in the club, that she's not even interested in, if she never gets back to you I wouldn't say it's a big loss. Agreed. Sounds like you were just her entertainment for the evening, sorry. Some people use other people like kleenexes. Not cool.
hinatticus Posted February 10, 2014 Posted February 10, 2014 2nd? Never heard this term before... Google pua and check out the forums.
Recommended Posts