sighh Posted February 10, 2014 Posted February 10, 2014 i was going so well, 19 days NC and received some breadcrumbs which i ignored. then for some stupid stupid stupid reason after gym i felt the need to drive past her house at 1am ( i don't even know why i did this ) anyways her sister was out the front and seen me go past and called me to ask what im doing and i said i don't know i just felt the need to. so so stupid i feel ashamed and embaressed that i did this... i ask myself why i did this and i can't even answer it... i feel pathetic for stooping this low. i deleted me ex's number, her sisters number, her, her friends & family off fb and instagram theres no way i can talk to her now... i think this is the only way i can let go for good. when i woke up in the morning i had a message from my ex on my phone saying something about how effed up it is and to just leave her alone for good and move on... i deleted it straight away and i plan to never speak to her for aslong as i can i wish i could undo what i did but i can't and there's legit nothing i can do about it and today i've just felt ashamed.
David87 Posted February 10, 2014 Posted February 10, 2014 Don't worry it's just a minor setback. At least now you know how it feels and you won't break NC in the future. 2
Author sighh Posted February 10, 2014 Author Posted February 10, 2014 i'm not really phased by breaking nc or any of that im just ashamed of what her and her family must think of me now driving past her house at 1am and stuff they must think im phsychotic
conmorse Posted February 10, 2014 Posted February 10, 2014 I just did the exact same thing and just made a thread about it... I feel awful.. 1
k10k Posted February 10, 2014 Posted February 10, 2014 Nevermind sighh and conmorse - seriously don't feel ashamed about it, we're all allowed to do silly things once in a while, we're only human after all. One day you guys will look back on this and laugh... 1
herself Posted February 10, 2014 Posted February 10, 2014 I dont see the big deal. Why should her & her family be so judgemental? Either way i feel like if an ex drove by my place I would feel like its a compliment. God knows you cross her mind too, and she texted you thar rude message just to get you to reply and engage in an argument & just probably wanted to hear you beg her back. The way your keeping your dignity is ignoring that text. I would block her & maybe even delete your whole fb account cause you may be at the bargaining stage trying to catch your heart up to your head that its over. Dont be embareased or beat yourself up, its really not a big deal. She was once a big part of your life, of course curiosity etc made you wanna drive by. And now you see what a selfish jerk she is to respond to it like that. Screw her. 1
WhiteTan Posted February 10, 2014 Posted February 10, 2014 (edited) "Legit Messed It All Up!" No you didn't, because there was nothing for you to mess up in the first place. Is this an embarrassing situation? Kinda. Did your ex and her family think it was strange? Possibly. Does any of that matter in the grand scheme of things? NO It's completely irrelevant what your ex and her family think about you, they're in the past. All you can do at this point is focus on the here, now, and future. Edited February 10, 2014 by WhiteTan 1
Author sighh Posted February 11, 2014 Author Posted February 11, 2014 cheers for the replies they've helped today i feel abit better about the whole situation, who cares what they think. i had a decent day, but feeling a little down now... todays the first day ever (that i can remember) not one person has text my phone or anything. it's lame but i feel lonely i guess? i'm really not used too it but i'm going to haveto get used too it 1
WhiteTan Posted February 11, 2014 Posted February 11, 2014 (edited) cheers for the replies they've helped today i feel abit better about the whole situation, who cares what they think. i had a decent day, but feeling a little down now... todays the first day ever (that i can remember) not one person has text my phone or anything. it's lame but i feel lonely i guess? i'm really not used too it but i'm going to haveto get used too it Glad to hear you're feeling better about that situation. As for loneliness, I understand what you're going through. When I go a whole day and nobody texts me/messages me on facebook, I feel like a loser. It's especially painful right after a break up because you're use to your significant other giving you attention all of the time and then you look at your phone with 0 messages to be reminded that they're not there anymore. Best thing you can do now is work on self improvement. Even if you're already good looking, improving your appearance is always a confidence booster. Set goals for yourself for your career, gotta utilize the single life while you have it because we all know how distracting and time consuming being in a relationship can be. I also recommend you start expanding your social circle. Edited February 11, 2014 by WhiteTan 1
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