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Ever met or dated a "Mutual Friend" from OL/D?


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Hey guys. I've gone back on OL/D in the past few weeks, I had success with it once before, and I'm single so I thought I'd try it again.

 

Basically, I've been speaking to and getting along with this guy really well, we've met once so far, and have arranged a Second Date in a few days time, all is well so far. Except, erm, I already know who he is, even though I'd never met him in person before our date.

 

He's the older brother of a guy I had a big crush on in school back in 2008/2009 who was in my year, an acquaintance moreso than a friend, and that didn't end so great. I mean nothing major happened, but I was rejected, and found out later he talked about me behind my back, and that was it. After that I just sorta moved on and forgot about him and defriended him when I was clearing out my friends list.

 

Anyway, I know it's him, because I remember when I had my ex-crush on Facebook, he was listed as his brother, and obviously they look really alike (he looks better actually.. lol..) and share the same last name.

 

He doesn't really know who I am, I know that he also went to my school, but we haven't talked about things like that yet, and I haven't mentioned at all that I know who he is.

 

I'm wondering when and how the best way to bring this sort of thing up? If at all? Am I a creep or something for "omitting" this?

And maybe this is kinda premature, but I'm kind of thinking ahead about awkwardness, as if it continues to go as well as it is now, I'll inevitably introduced to his family (and my ex-crush) at some point. Nothing like this has happened to me before, so it is a really weird coincidence.

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