terry35 Posted January 17, 2005 Posted January 17, 2005 Need some advice...I just broke up with my long term BF of 9 years...we have been broken up for about a month. In that month I met another man who I have developed feelings for and I know he is very much falling for me. I know it is a short time but he is very open about his feeling towards me, which my ex wasn't. Now that I have broken off with my Long Term bf he now is calling me and wants to get back together, he says he can see us getting married and having a family...This is what I wanted to hear from him while we were still together and he couldn't give me that kind of committment at the time..Now that we are not together anymore he is telling me this!!! I still have STRONG feelings for my ex and we have been through alot together..and now I am completely confused as to what to do....Do I give my ex another chance?? or do i move on and continue with this new relatiohship...I care for this new man, but it has only been a short while we are together and I can't help thinking about my ex. Has anyone ever been in this sutuation? Some helpful advice would be appreciated.... thanks
upsetnhurt Posted January 17, 2005 Posted January 17, 2005 Unfortunately Terry I must say that your new relationship is simply a "rebound" relationship. End it now as you are only going to unintentionally devastaste your new flame at one point in the future. The fact that you are thinking of your ex and still harbor strong feelings for him tells me that you have not sufficiently healed your heart over your breakup. Until you can 100% be comfortable with your decision that your ex was not the "one" and cease as having him as part of your life, that meaning cut off all contact with him....you will never be able to give 100% into your new relationship. I know this because I was on the other side just as your new flame and my now ex broke my heart........
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