lil_missy Posted February 10, 2014 Posted February 10, 2014 So I have a sort of FWB and i actually started to quite like him. but i pretend like i dont care because I dont want to corner him and I'm not sure that I want things to change. anyway he sometimes sends me quite explicit texts like 'wish you were sucking on my c*** right now" which is fine by me and his been sending these quite often recently. In response, I asked him to send me a private pic of his d*** and i complimented him that i thought it was amazing. he didnt respond to that text for a few days and left me wondering whats wrong? when he finally responded, he basically didnt want to send it to me. I just dont understand why would he not want to send me the pic? I thought guys love to do that. and its not like i havent seen it before. We have never asked for pictures of each other before, but once he asked me if he could film me which I declined. Also i've noticed that he doesnt respond very well if i send him an explicit text, he will just say ok and change the subject. On the contrary he responds very well if i just say " i miss you baby want to see you" etc. does he get offended when girls talk dirty? When he talks dirty to me, he loves when i respond all coy as if I'm embarrassed. Just wondering if there are any other guys out there that act like this?
CarrieT Posted February 10, 2014 Posted February 10, 2014 Not every guy is into the picture thing. And the fact that you are developing feelings is a huge red flag; it will not end well... 1
soccerrprp Posted February 10, 2014 Posted February 10, 2014 Not every guy is into the picture thing. And the fact that you are developing feelings is a huge red flag; it will not end well... Some guys like to dish it but not receive it. They look at the girl as if she is slutty to be even speaking that way. Anyway, not everyone likes such dirty texting, pics, etc.
salparadise Posted February 10, 2014 Posted February 10, 2014 Maybe he's thinking about public office or a responsible job someday and doesn't want to worry about when his dick pics are going to make a surprise appearance.
crederer Posted February 10, 2014 Posted February 10, 2014 So I have a sort of FWB and i actually started to quite like him. but i pretend like i dont care because I dont want to corner him and I'm not sure that I want things to change. anyway he sometimes sends me quite explicit texts like 'wish you were sucking on my c*** right now" which is fine by me and his been sending these quite often recently. In response, I asked him to send me a private pic of his d*** and i complimented him that i thought it was amazing. he didnt respond to that text for a few days and left me wondering whats wrong? when he finally responded, he basically didnt want to send it to me. I just dont understand why would he not want to send me the pic? I thought guys love to do that. and its not like i havent seen it before. We have never asked for pictures of each other before, but once he asked me if he could film me which I declined. Also i've noticed that he doesnt respond very well if i send him an explicit text, he will just say ok and change the subject. On the contrary he responds very well if i just say " i miss you baby want to see you" etc. does he get offended when girls talk dirty? When he talks dirty to me, he loves when i respond all coy as if I'm embarrassed. Just wondering if there are any other guys out there that act like this? I request pics but don't reciprocate for trust issues, tbh. Also, calling him "baby" might freak him out as he obviously doesn't want to be more than f buddies and "baby" is a term of endearment.
Author lil_missy Posted February 10, 2014 Author Posted February 10, 2014 I request pics but don't reciprocate for trust issues, tbh. Also, calling him "baby" might freak him out as he obviously doesn't want to be more than f buddies and "baby" is a term of endearment. nah you misread me, he responds well to baby, he called me his baby first actually.
newmoon Posted February 10, 2014 Posted February 10, 2014 he's regretting sending the pic imo. by being rather simple now with his text responses he's probably hoping you won't ask for more and he's discouraging your interest by doing that.
Author lil_missy Posted February 10, 2014 Author Posted February 10, 2014 Maybe he's thinking about public office or a responsible job someday and doesn't want to worry about when his dick pics are going to make a surprise appearance. actually he is studying to be a teacher, so i can see how he wouldnt want pix to get around. however i'm really surprised bcuz he has made heaps of home videos and showed them to me at his house so he really should be more worried about those. he just doesnt seem like the type to shy away from a simple pic!
Author lil_missy Posted February 10, 2014 Author Posted February 10, 2014 Some guys like to dish it but not receive it. They look at the girl as if she is slutty to be even speaking that way. Anyway, not everyone likes such dirty texting, pics, etc. I tend to agree with you that he might be the type to dish it but not receive it, he might have strong double standards for women and men. =(
Tayken Posted February 10, 2014 Posted February 10, 2014 I thought guys love to do that. Really...where did you get that from, your little boyfriends? Someone needs to cut down on the c**k sucking. That is like saying all women like to be filmed
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