kart180 Posted February 10, 2014 Posted February 10, 2014 As a single guy who are nearly 30s, I need a women who don't smoke and sober. Any suggestions
SYLLPalmer Posted February 10, 2014 Posted February 10, 2014 As a single guy who are nearly 30s, I need a women who don't smoke and sober. Any suggestions Go to an open AA meeting. 1
TheyCallMeOx Posted February 10, 2014 Posted February 10, 2014 My mom. Also you don't "need" a woman regardless of type. 1
pickflicker Posted February 10, 2014 Posted February 10, 2014 Habitual smokers are on a massive decline, so that shouldn't be too difficult. In my immediate group of friends, only one is a smoker (my bestie). That's one in 10. As for sober, if she drinks socially, is it really a big deal if you don't? One of my friends doesn't drink and her fiance does, it makes no difference to their relationship.
newmoon Posted February 10, 2014 Posted February 10, 2014 is this really that hard to find? I don't do either, never have, and it's just because I don't want to not because of any belief system. didn't think this was rare. 2
Author kart180 Posted February 10, 2014 Author Posted February 10, 2014 (edited) Habitual smokers are on a massive decline, so that shouldn't be too difficult. In my immediate group of friends, only one is a smoker (my bestie). That's one in 10. As for sober, if she drinks socially, is it really a big deal if you don't? One of my friends doesn't drink and her fiance does, it makes no difference to their relationship. Its true smoking is on the decline. I just got a real strong stance on smoking and drinking because I was born early and can't handle it well . if my date drinks thtas ok. I have no problem with that. Edited February 10, 2014 by kart180
notthathard Posted February 10, 2014 Posted February 10, 2014 Alcohol abuse is a red flag to me now. My most recent ex was a big drinker and I didn't think it was an issue until later when I realized she was drinking to mellow out her bad life experiences. I have other female friends who do the same and don't realize they have an issue. I dont think it's an issue if they drink a few times a week, but when one gets drunk at home and are happy to drink by themselves than that's and issue. Most ladies I've been on a date with don't smoke, here in my country the non-smokers outweigh the smokers. 1
jcrew11 Posted February 10, 2014 Posted February 10, 2014 As a single guy who are nearly 30s, I need a women who don't smoke and sober. Any suggestions I told you to join a yoga class or gym to meet healthy singles. But you said you were too cheap to leave the house. Do you have some sort of cognitive disability that effects your thought process? Are you dealing with any effects of aspergers? I would recommend you see a doctor or health professional if you cannot function in society due to social anxiety or other psycological issues. Or if you are having trouble in the town that you are living in. I don't think its healthy to ask hundreds of the same questions on the forum. In reality, you should see your GP and figure out if some sort of therapy will help you adjust to your current life conditions. If you think you need help, don't write on a forum, you need to see a health professional. 2
Author kart180 Posted February 10, 2014 Author Posted February 10, 2014 (edited) I told you to join a yoga class or gym to meet healthy singles. But you said you were too cheap to leave the house. Do you have some sort of cognitive disability that effects your thought process? Are you dealing with any effects of aspergers? I would recommend you see a doctor or health professional if you cannot function in society due to social anxiety or other psycological issues. Or if you are having trouble in the town that you are living in. I don't think its healthy to ask hundreds of the same questions on the forum. In reality, you should see your GP and figure out if some sort of therapy will help you adjust to your current life conditions. If you think you need help, don't write on a forum, you need to see a health professional. Thanks a lot, jcrew11. I do like your username, I don't aspergers just a guy who can drive but don't have my own car due to high coast of insurance etc. I am just a guy who gets out a lot. Didn't party or club when I was in college. On top of all that, I currently live in a 55+ condo that was bought by my parents Edited February 10, 2014 by kart180
d0nnivain Posted February 10, 2014 Posted February 10, 2014 If you want to meet people, regardless of your specifications, what are you doing to accomplish that? Have you tried taking walks on the beach or doing other healthy activities? Volunteer somewhere like a hospital or at a theater company of even an animal rescue. Make your specifications known on OLD. Ask friends & family to fix you up. 1
Author kart180 Posted February 11, 2014 Author Posted February 11, 2014 If you want to meet people, regardless of your specifications, what are you doing to accomplish that? Have you tried taking walks on the beach or doing other healthy activities? Volunteer somewhere like a hospital or at a theater company of even an animal rescue. Make your specifications known on OLD. Ask friends & family to fix you up. Thanks for the suggestions, d0nnivain, I cant walk to the beach because its quite a drive and i do eat healthy. volunteering is a good idea. I do like to volunteer at a animal rescue or I might go college here for my IT certification.
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