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Some thoughts on the time it takes to get over someone


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Heartache

 

Once I realised that heartache only takes, roughly two weeks to get over, (no matter how much in love you are) When they began to see in my eyes the utter fearlessness of being broke up with, it removed all the power that woman had over me. There is little to compare with the gut wrenching agony of a bad breakup. They call in heartache because it is a visceral, physical reaction that sometimes manifest itself in the stomach and chest. However: keeping ones self busy helps to lessen the time it takes to feel whole again. Ultimately the fear of being alone is like a bag of ****ing bricks. Once we decide to lay it down, we will be free of the chains of bondage and the amount of respect we receive, from the opposite sex, is uncanny. A girlfriend/wife is more of a status symbol then an emotional necessity. Like a cell phone that keeps dropping your goddamn calls.

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glad you are not bitter at all then :p

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Ultimately the fear of being alone is like a bag of ****ing bricks. Once we decide to lay it down, we will be free of the chains of bondage and the amount of respect we receive, from the opposite sex, is uncanny.

 

Spot on. Learning to be in love with yourself eliminates the fear of being alone.

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