shinealight Posted February 9, 2014 Posted February 9, 2014 OK so my friend just told me how she went behind her friends back with this bloke and she is still doing it. Even though this bloke is still with his Girlfriend and does keep saying how much he loves her. I do keep telling her he is not worth it because he is just using her and stuff but she just does not seem to listen. Is there any way for me to get through to her that he just does not want to be with her? Because i would of assumed if he wanted her he would of dumped his Girlfriend by now and went out with her.
pickflicker Posted February 9, 2014 Posted February 9, 2014 You can't, you have to let her work it out for herself.
Gaeta Posted February 10, 2014 Posted February 10, 2014 No you cannot not. Your friend has to learn the lesson the hard way. When it's all said and done and she's heart broken be there for her.
Noproblem Posted February 10, 2014 Posted February 10, 2014 I usually leave friends who do sabotage their lives and don't listen to reason Not because I hate them, but it frustrates me way too much to see someone ruining his life and acting stupidly 2
HappyLove Posted February 10, 2014 Posted February 10, 2014 Your friend will learn the hard way. And you better watch what she's doing with your man behind your back too, if you're a girl. It's just a matter of time before she screws you over too. 1
Leigh 87 Posted February 10, 2014 Posted February 10, 2014 I would tell her she is being a skank by screwing around with her friends boyfriend.
crederer Posted February 10, 2014 Posted February 10, 2014 You can't do anything. It'll blow up in her face and that's the only way she'll learn.
preraph Posted February 10, 2014 Posted February 10, 2014 She'll have to learn the hard way. Unfortunately, many girls believe the fairy tales and rom com movies and think if they really like someone, that it is predestined that person will like them back and it will turn into a big romance. Nothing could be further from the truth. She will only end up hurt. But it's a lesson we all have to learn through experience. Idealism is sweet, but it doesn't work well in relationships, I'm afraid.
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