confusedjan Posted February 9, 2014 Posted February 9, 2014 My ex of 6 years texted me "wassup" after one week of NC. I told him I need atleast 2 months before I can attempt to be his friend. He said if you cant be normal than don't bother texting. Then he proceeded to say I have a new phone, someone else to braid my hair, and internet at my house so be normal. Lastly, he said he got a plane ticket home (we moved to CA together). Why did he tell me all this when all I said was I needed space and why did he contact me at all. Is it weird or do I not get it?
OhThatGirl Posted February 9, 2014 Posted February 9, 2014 He's hurt by your decision to go NC and is trying to show you he doesn't need you and is doing fine. He's upset you won't give him validation. Good. Stick with it. CA is awesome. I live here too. Let him go back home. His loss.
Merenwen Posted February 9, 2014 Posted February 9, 2014 My ex of 6 years texted me "wassup" after one week of NC. I told him I need atleast 2 months before I can attempt to be his friend. He said if you cant be normal than don't bother texting. Then he proceeded to say I have a new phone, someone else to braid my hair, and internet at my house so be normal. Lastly, he said he got a plane ticket home (we moved to CA together). Why did he tell me all this when all I said was I needed space and why did he contact me at all. Is it weird or do I not get it? I think he's just sending breadcrums.. I mean it sounds like ge is just testing the water... You need to understand he's just going for a ego-boost. Him not respecting your wishes shows that... Honestly I would feel confusen too at my stage after BU but you need to understand that he is only doing this to please himself...
FailedFirstLove Posted February 9, 2014 Posted February 9, 2014 what does time even mean, I don't understand why people need time... I get angry but I cool down after abit. My ex said that to me... To leave him alone.. And now I've angered him to no return... He wants me to delete his number and never contact him again... Is two months enough for you to heal? I tried to be friends with him and i just got confused... It became so hard! Cause I didn't understand whether he wanted me back or not... Then it made me act stupidly and he thinks I manipulated him... And wants me out forever... Maybe you shouldn't tell him to give you time, it's confusing..
Author confusedjan Posted February 10, 2014 Author Posted February 10, 2014 to failedfirstlove I know in my head and heart that it wouldn't work so I want time to let me emotions settle. He knows I don't want to be with him to everyone else I made the mistake in asking him if he wants to talk so we can both let each other know how we feel. He instantly start being mean to me saying I don't like you, you have no chill and you cant play your role, and to never contact him again. So I have to start NC all over again and this time never look back. IDK why I thought that he would want to be mature about the situation, after all he contacted me.
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