What should I tell this girl? She wrote on her blog that she'll be alone forever.

[Kokoro-Fan]

She wrote on her blog that she's tired of things and not knowing how to fix them. How she wants to move to England with her grandparents (she's American) but worried she won't be able to get a job in what she majored in because she's not talented enough but she said it's okay with that. Then says she is worried it will be hard to get a job over there and how payments will be difficult because she might be alone her whole life.

 

Why does she think this way? Maybe her insecurities caught up to her? She didn't come off like that. She always seems happy.

 

You know how I feel? I feel sad because I want her to be happy. I also want to be her bf. If she was my gf, I would tell her to think about moving to England very seriously and if she still wanted to, I would help save up money and move with her there. I wouldn't think about it twice. This is something I wouldn't do just for any girl. She is the only girl I'd do this for.

 

Thing is, I asked her out twice. The first time she said yes but nothing came about it. She is very shy and stuff and I was shy around her too so it appeared as if we didn't have much chemistry. Anyways, I saw her again a year later, after briefly talking for a bit, I asked her out again but got rejected (asked her out to the movies but she said she had plans already.) And yeah, it's not like we talked much anyways. But it's been 3 years and I still haven't gotten over her. But I have accepted that maybe she just doesn't like me that way. That's why last year I didn't do anything. Although she sat near me (right across from me on the same table). I mean, me and a friend sat near the entrance of the class. Then he would sit next to her (other side of the class) right before class started. Then he just sat with her. One day they came to class early and they were sitting were me and him sat. When class started, he asked her if she wanted to move back to her usual seat and she said she was fine where she was. And they stayed there. :/ Only interaction I had with her was smiling back at her (I helped a classmate with some work and she asked him how he did it, and he told her I helped him, she looked at me and smiled).

 

Anyways, what should I write to her on her blog? Anonymously of course. I want to give her some general advice to encourage her. I also want her to realize that there is someone out there that loves her. I won't tell her it's actually me but she just has to know someone out there is crazy for her. I don't know why she feels like she'll be alone.

[HokeyReligions]

Happiness is way overrated. Let her alone. Some people are destined for being alone. You can't force her to like you. You can't force her to feel the way you want her to.